If seeking an alliance with NATO is giving up freedom, then none of the European countries are free. The trope about freedom vs security usually reserved for domestic surveillance. It does not translate well when there is a invading bully who is trying to takeover the country. This idea of blaming the victim and calling the smaller country 'naive' for wanting to remain independent of a hegemon is no different from blaming a rape victim
As for India's 'balanced' game, India does not have a choice in the matter. India has an illusion of choice, not a real choice given its dependency on Russian military hardware. If you look at the narrative in Indian media, majority support Ukraine's sovereignty. This is true from across the political spectrum except for left/right wingers. But everyone is just in a muted agreement that India does not have a choice in this matter.