Hi,
Tsun Zu's time has long gone---. Chegiz Khan smashed it to dust---.
Chegiz Khan, Julius Ceasar, Alexander The Great, Subotai Bahadur, Khalid Bin Waleed, Tariq Ibn a Ziyyad, or any other great conquerer had one thing in common---.
They never trusted niceties and would rather ask for brutal & honest truth---.
When any of the generals made major breakthroughs thru enemy defenses which were never successful in the past---it was for the reason they listened to someone who suggested something "otherwise" and to suggest something otherwise---you have to be harsh, loud and to the point---.
Need to grow a thick skin---this is war we are talking about---.