(QUESTION) Why can’t Pakistani men marry Saudi women?

[El Sidd]

Sectarianism towards the Arabs have taken a sick cultural perspective

 

[PAKISTANFOREVER]

i think saudis are more rich than Pakistanis so why their women will want to marry Pakistani men,first we should develop our national respect and end attitude of receiving aids from rich countries then such restrictions will end automatically

Although that most definitely plays a part in it, it's more complicated than that. EVERY race of man does not want their women to race-mix. It's a natural, normal healthy human extinct to feel like this. Miscegenation is a disgusting, immoral and vulgar act. The evidence is there for all to see. Look at the results of those produced from the union between white English women breeding with men of black african heritage here in the UK.

 

[Indus Pakistan]

He looks half-caste. Half Jamaican half White. Are you sure he is Saudi Arabian and not from South East London or Liverpool?

Dunno mate, but he sure is fit as a poster boy for "Black Lives Matter". And he is Saudi royalty. You can imagine what he would have looked like after doing 12 hour in scorching sun on a building site in the desert like our boys have to. Most Saudi's bar the new breed which have been 'whitwashed' by marriage to Syrian, Lebanese, Turkish, Levantine, Persian women are hidiously ugly mix of Hamatic, Semitic with dose of Negro and their cousins the Somali's are good example. You often can see that even i names like Gargash, Bin Turki etc

 

[PAKISTANFOREVER]

Dunno mate, but he sure is fit as a poster boy for "Black Lives Matter". And he is Saudi royalty. You can imagine what he would have looked like after doing 12 hour in scorching sun on a building site in the desert like our boys have to. Most Saudi's bar the new breed which have been 'whitwashed' by marriage to Syrian, Lebanese, Turkish, Levantine, Persian women are hidiously ugly mix of Hamatic, Semitic with dose of Negro and their cousins the Somali's are good example. You often can see that even i names like Gargash, Bin Turki etc

He looks more like Lionel Ritche than he does the archetypal Arab. Had he been working in the heat he would have ended up looking Shane Mosely.

Trust me, those half-caste looking Saudis still exist en-masse. Have seen quite a few of them over the years. Lot of them are young too.

He would fit in perfectly with BLM and probably give them a good financial boost too. He is called "Bandar" for a reason.

 

[Indus Pakistan]

"Bandar"

Saud ......

 

[Lincoln]

Tbh, Pakistani girls are more attractive in my personal opinion + the added benefit of common language, culture and customs.

World is bigger than Saudi too. @PAKISTANFOREVER

You won't find the kind of connection which you will find in your own country and culture. It really matters.

Secondly, marriages outside a nationality or ethnicity are generally not liked or frowned upon in all societies save multicultural societies.

 

[Musings]

He looks more like Lionel Ritche than he does the archetypal Arab. Had he been working in the heat he would have ended up looking Shane Mosely.

Trust me, those half-caste looking Saudis still exist en-masse. Have seen quite a few of them over the years. Lot of them are young too.

He would fit in perfectly with BLM and probably give them a good financial boost too. He is called "Bandar" for a reason.

Lionel today will be most aggrieved to be compared to this ugly soul.

 

[Bil]

Odds of a marriage to be successful are higher if husband and wife share same culture, heritage , language, values, and religion. This is the reason when parents look for girls/boys they start the probe within those families who speak same language (this speaks volume), within same community.

I personally know a friend, who was in relationship with a Saudi girl in UK, got married but latter after having a kid they filed divorce and the reason was culture, language and values difference. Its not easy to accommodate with somebody with different heritage, language, values and family background.

Now that poor thing is raising his kid alone and curse himself all the time why did he marry with a girl who had a different nationality.

 

[macnurv]

As we can see Pakistani men are high in-demand in the country

Haan kioon nahin, after all who would not want such insecure creatures.

 

[macnurv]

Odds of a marriage to be successful are higher if husband and wife share same culture, heritage , language, values, and religion.

Sorry but no, there is no empirical evidence for this "assumption", your or for that matter anyones personal experience counts for nothing. If it was true, the divorce rates would be far lower in Pakistan, where most of the people are following same religion, share more or less same culture also can communicate in same language etc etc, yet we see an increase in divorce rate.
The matter is not as simple as we would like it to be, its a complex issue with countless factors playing critical role in it, even if we urge it to be simple.

 

[Khan vilatey]

I have some expertise in the area one of my friends did run away with a girl from Abu Dhabi they are happily married.

I personally feel like @PAKISTANFOREVER that I would marry someone who can atleast speak my language and understands the cultural norms.

I am However completely ok with inter race marriages as long as the folk are Muslim or ahele kitab. Diversity complements our religion. If one loves and is patient to invest in the relationship they will be able successful.

As far as marrying a Saudi women is
concerned one can as long as they pay Maher to the girls father which is a lot.
Kv

 

[PAKISTANFOREVER]

Lionel today will be most aggrieved to be compared to this ugly soul.

True. I'm probably doing a disservice to old Lionel.

 

[Bil]

Sorry but no, there is no empirical evidence for this "assumption", your or for that matter anyones personal experience counts for nothing. If it was true, the divorce rates would be far lower in Pakistan, where most of the people are following same religion, share more or less same culture also can communicate in same language etc etc, yet we see an increase in divorce rate.
The matter is not as simple as we would like it to be, its a complex issue with countless factors playing critical role in it, even if we urge it to be simple.

You answered your own question actually.

There are many reason for higher divorce rate not only in Pakistan but everywhere. However, the reasons I illustrated earlier could and do play part.

I am not saying that you cant marry out of your culture with somebody who possesses different nationality or background. However, do not expect others will confer to your own culture explications and belief systems. You can't have it both ways, you can't have your cake and eat it too.

 

[Shehr Abbasi]

Secondly, marriages outside a nationality or ethnicity are generally not liked or frowned upon in all societies save multicultural societies.

So what? What gives them the right to ban it?

I personally know a friend, who was in relationship with a Saudi girl in UK, got married but latter after having a kid they filed divorce and the reason was culture, language and values difference. Its not easy to accommodate with somebody with different heritage, language, values and family background.

One anecdote can’t be applied as a theorem everywhere.

If it was true, the divorce rates would be far lower in Pakistan, where most of the people are following same religion, share more or less same culture also can communicate in same language etc etc, yet we see an increase in divorce rate.

I find divorce rates to be lower & marriages to be happier when the wife is shy, conservative, & pious. The Saudis seem to have an upper-hand. You don’t seem to see that “Aurat March” BS over there.

I am However completely ok with inter race marriages as long as the folk are Muslim or ahele kitab. Diversity complements our religion. If one loves and is patient to invest in the relationship they will be able successful.

I hope Imran Khan can raise this point in next diplomatic meeting with KSA. It must be legalized again.

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

Bro it's just the way it is. They just despise the very thought of it. But hey plenty more fish in the sea for any lookers.

By the way if someone wants to marry an Arab lady then go Jordanian, Lebanese and Syrian, by Allah they have some of the greatest beauty on the planet. One of my work colleagues is Lebanese, and she destroys most women out of the water, and she's married to a UK Pakistani Mipuri dude. Oh and his family treat her like some hoor from heaven. The women from these groups do tend to marry Pakistanis.

Ok back to the general topic it's fine whoever you want to marry, but I'd recommend to look no where else but our women, I mean the diversity of beauty is just insane, from dusky beauties to snow white queens, you name it. Pakistani women also have that rare gift of just looking effortlessly stunning, just a bit of slap and you have Cinderella going to the ball. Now add the fact they can cook, tend to be homely and share cultural, racial and religious ties, you are on a winner. If I had my choice I'd marry three more, just the formidable, unstoppable force of nature when it comes to this stuff is my wife, so that's that lol.

If Pakistanis wish to marry outside out I'd say allied nations is a good place to look, or cultures that are close to us.

Turkey;

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Iran

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Afghanistan

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I've known of guys married into these groups close to us and they have done well.
It also builds strong alliances, and this is what our faith says as well i.e. to build relationships with marriage. Both nations become stronger through such unions.

Great post, I agree wholeheartedly. Aside from Pakistanis, these are the three cultures most similar. It is not difficult for a Pakistan to marry into the culture, since it is ver similar.

However, it is amazing that Pakistan has such diverse phenotypes that you can marry women who look like they can be European, Turk, Iranian, or even Japanese. All beautiful and with strong family backgrounds, who do not feign hard work and compromise, unlike women of other cultures.