I don't have any displeasure with Pakistani pakhtuns as most I have met are patriotic Pakistanis and humble, which happens to be the complete opposite of majority of Afghans such as yourself. Secondly the Pakhtuns who went to Kashmir were Pakistanis, and predominantly wazirs and mehsuds, the same pakistanis who mostly get beaten up by Afghan policemen. My point being, you should be making threads about Afghanistan's history, which would be enjoyable for us all to read instead of Pakistan's.
As far as them not getting any medals; to get a war medal, you have to be in the armed forces and in a declared war. That's why no nishan-e-haider have been given to the martyrs of war on terror, because the government hasn't officially declared war. The Pakhtun tribals in this case were a militia and not in the armed forces. Secondly, I have a few Kashmiri friends who migrated after partition, and they all have a grudge against the Pakhtun tribals as they claim that a lot of the militia men were very cruel towards the native muslims, and were involved in murders, robberies, rapes and cutting peoples' noses off. I'm sure a lot of Kashmiris share the same sentiment, hence they might get offended if war medals are offered to the tribal militia. Regardless, most Pakistanis respect the Pakhtuns. It's only the refugees who think of themselves to be superior to everyone else whom we dislike. If you hate Pakistan so much, better go back to your own country or some other country.
