Bangladesh cannot afford to become hostile towards India.
Bangladeshis should understand that you cannot change India as your neighbour, your neighbour is permanent. If Bangladesh tries to directly confront India then chances are India will make life miserable for Bangladeshis.
Also remember no country on earth can prosper by keeping poor relationship with its neighbour. Take India and Pakistan as examples. India is creating trouble in its neighbourhood for which the hindutva regime is already being criticized. Even Nepal is killing Indians at the border.
Then Pakistan and Afghanistan are hostile towards each other which resulted in increase in terrorist elements in the tribal areas of Pakistan and economic downturn of Pakistan.
Bangladesh should not listen to India and should not bow down to their demands but at the same time it is a foolish step to directly confront India.