Pakistani women in abusive marriages in Canada

[Yankee-stani]

Like our old Pakistani uncles from 70s, 80s, Iranians are classy and dress sharp, no doubt.

One thing I give the Iranians credit they look classy as a people I never seen an Iranian look like slob they all drive expensive cars they sound arrogant at first but when you get to know them they become best of buds

Sounds like a grave generalization.

Surely there are scum men from Pakistani heritage involved in such heinous crimes, but making such a sweeping statement is no different to Western claims that all Muslims are terrorists.



Western men import females from Eastern countries. That is all I am going to say. They feel neglected by their women.

True that's why I hate how the Yanks and west want to spread this crap to our eastern lands

Indeed it is, it's very anti Muslim Brotherhood.

I am not sure if there are Pakistani members,havent been there for a long time. But there are threads about Saudi-Pakistan ties and Pakistani weapons.

Your spot on @Falcon29 this form you mentioned is pure cancer I mean I search up Pakistan and they claim we been hijacked by Iran

 

[ShaikhKamal]

Written by Jaanbaz
"Better then being married off to a fucking dog like in your country India."

LOL ! I guess all the Pakistani have been manufactured in the same factory with same hardware and software. They all look and think alike. OMG we are all clones !

I think I did not make myself clear. I meant to sa that "Do we Pakistanis are manufactured in same factory with same hardware and software that we would look and think alike similar to clones". We all have had different life experiences that have shaped over views about issues. That does not mean I am also not a Pakistani. @Dubious gave me negative when my answer did not violate any rules.

@Dubious

 

[maximuswarrior]

Written by Jaanbaz
"Better then being married off to a fucking dog like in your country India."



I think I did not make myself clear. I meant to sa that "Do we Pakistanis are manufactured in same factory with same hardware and software that we would look and think alike similar to clones". We all have had different life experiences that have shaped over views about issues. That does not mean I am also not a Pakistani. @Dubious gave me negative when my answer did not violate any rules.

@Dubious

It is hard to believe anything considering how you behave and respond to most things.

 

[ShaikhKamal]

It is hard to believe anything considering how you behave and respond to most things.

Everyone has their own unique style. This is not an army that we march in unison.

 

[Dubious]

Written by Jaanbaz
"Better then being married off to a fucking dog like in your country India."



I think I did not make myself clear. I meant to sa that "Do we Pakistanis are manufactured in same factory with same hardware and software that we would look and think alike similar to clones". We all have had different life experiences that have shaped over views about issues. That does not mean I am also not a Pakistani. @Dubious gave me negative when my answer did not violate any rules.

@Dubious

Insulting a nationality would get you a warning I gave a negative rating which do you prefer?

Written by Jaanbaz
"Better then being married off to a fucking dog like in your country India."

I did delete that post now didn't I?

 

[maximuswarrior]

Everyone has their own unique style. This is not an army that we march in unison.

That is the problem right here. You don’t understand how important unity is. Learn from your neighbors India.

You will understand once it is too late to understand.

You are part of the problem. Certainly not part of the solution.

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

That is the problem right here. You don’t understand how important unity is. Learn from your neighbors India.

You will understand once it is too late to understand.

You are part of the problem. Certainly not part of the solution.

Exactly, it is unfair to pin the blame only on males.

Domestic abuse happens both ways, and takes various forms, including emotional, physical, and blackmail.

Furthermore, it doesn’t help with addressing the root cause which is disrespect and lack of compromising between two spouses.

In the Midwest US, Turkish and Arab girls prefer to marry Pakistani males (whom they marry in university,) due not only to better jobs and permanence, but loyalty.

It is actually becoming a big problem as Pakistani females end up getting left behind and have to compromise as far as marriage prospects. This is due to waiting so long for the perfect situation to get married with dignity and respect which never comes.

 

[airmarshal]

Yes

No. This is not true. I m not defending Pakistani men. The way they are brought up, they are a sub standard product of our culture. But women are no angels either. So when you hear women crying and complaining, her complain is genuine but that is half the story.

I have come across very good men in abusive marriages. Abused by none other than their wives. Just because most men dont come out and complain, does not mean marital abuse is a one way traffic.

Here in Canada, women get the platform to complain and I have come across in personal life of Pakistani women reporting to police their husbands to get advantage in custody of children and divorce proceedings. They black mail men in property transactions, children to get the most money. Here police and courts fully support this racquet. And take full advantage of this over men. A woman just needs to report a man here. Police without even a hint of investigation lays a charge on man ruining his life.

Men might be abusing physically. And this can never ever be forgiven in any case. But have any of you ever gone through the manipulative, emotional blackmail a woman can unleash on her man? That is a bigger torture.

 

[maximuswarrior]

No. This is not true. I m not defending Pakistani men. The way they are brought up, they are a sub standard product of our culture. But women are no angels either. So when you hear women crying and complaining, her complain is genuine but that is half the story.

I have come across very good men in abusive marriages. Abused by none other than their wives. Just because most men dont come out and complain, does not mean marital abuse is a one way traffic.

Here in Canada, women get the platform to complain and I have come across in personal life of Pakistani women reporting to police their husbands to get advantage in custody of children and divorce proceedings. They black mail men in property transactions, children to get the most money. Here police and courts fully support this racquet. And take full advantage of this over men. A woman just needs to report a man here. Police without even a hint of investigation lays a charge on man ruining his life.

Men might be abusing physically. And this can never ever be forgiven in any case. But have any of you ever gone through the manipulative, emotional blackmail a woman can unleash on her man? That is a bigger torture.

The women are no different. It is all the same. The same garbage.

It is not only Pakistani men that are dealing with these problems. Women empowerment, feminism, equality etc. You look all over the world. Like I said, these things have gotten way out of hand. When people have agendas and political goals even a noble goals becomes tainted.

No. This is not true. I m not defending Pakistani men. The way they are brought up, they are a sub standard product of our culture. But women are no angels either. So when you hear women crying and complaining, her complain is genuine but that is half the story.

I have come across very good men in abusive marriages. Abused by none other than their wives. Just because most men dont come out and complain, does not mean marital abuse is a one way traffic.

Here in Canada, women get the platform to complain and I have come across in personal life of Pakistani women reporting to police their husbands to get advantage in custody of children and divorce proceedings. They black mail men in property transactions, children to get the most money. Here police and courts fully support this racquet. And take full advantage of this over men. A woman just needs to report a man here. Police without even a hint of investigation lays a charge on man ruining his life.

Men might be abusing physically. And this can never ever be forgiven in any case. But have any of you ever gone through the manipulative, emotional blackmail a woman can unleash on her man? That is a bigger torture.

The way the Western system deals with conflict between husband and wife is equally flawed as how our culture deals with these issues. It is skewed and biased.

In the Western civilization a woman is provided benefit of doubt because she is weaker etc. In our culture it is the opposite. There needs to be a balanced approach without taking into account the physical attributes of any gender. Any conflict should be judged on merit without political affiliation or bias.

 

[Yankee-stani]

The women are no different. It is all the same. The same garbage.

It is not only Pakistani men that are dealing with these problems. Women empowerment, feminism, equality etc. You look all over the world. Like I said, these things have gotten way out of hand. When people have agendas and political goals even a noble goals becomes tainted.

More and More Younger Pakistani men will marry non Pakistanis in the future due to this the days of importing "Dulhan doll" is over and I agree with the rise of the internet and these women talk shows and dramas all over women who stay at home are more focused on watching dramas and following them than raising kids no different than career women who bitch a lot

 

[Philip the Arab]

Exactly, it is unfair to pin the blame only on males.

Domestic abuse happens both ways, and takes various forms, including emotional, physical, and blackmail.

Furthermore, it doesn’t help with addressing the root cause which is disrespect and lack of compromising between two spouses.

In the Midwest US, Turkish and Arab girls prefer to marry Pakistani males (whom they marry in university,) due not only to better jobs and permanence, but loyalty.

It is actually becoming a big problem as Pakistani females end up getting left behind and have to compromise as far as marriage prospects. This is due to waiting so long for the perfect situation to get married with dignity and respect which never comes.

Weird... I have never see a Pakistani male with a Arab woman but I guess it only happens in your area.

 

[Itachi]

After the divorce, if you want to remarry you will only find men and women who have been also hurt by their spouses in their first marriages and carry extra baggage and maybe children too.

Not true, I have seen divorced women marry single men (their 1st wife) and divorced men marry single women (their 1st husband).

 

[jericho]

No.. They dress slutty.

Nonsense

 

[Yankee-stani]

Exactly, it is unfair to pin the blame only on males.



In the Midwest US, Turkish and Arab girls prefer to marry Pakistani males (whom they marry in university,) due not only to better jobs and permanence, but loyalty.

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Good for the diaspora Pakistani men taking charge on which partner they want for far too long the diaspora Pakistani had to go through family pressure to marry some for Pakistani girl who wound not being loyal and just being a gold digger as usual while the parents will boast my son is married now at least we are now growing a pair now as for Pakistani diaspora girls they should learn those lessons

 

[maximuswarrior]

Weird... I have never see a Pakistani male with a Arab woman but I guess it only happens in your area.

Arab women do marry Pakistani men. It happens here too in The Netherlands. That is if you believe that North Africans are Arabs.