Pakistani women in abusive marriages in Canada

[Philip the Arab]

Quotes got messed up again for many of those above? Can someone fix them when they quote somebody next time please?

 

[Wa Muhammada]

I am of the opinion that Pakistanis should prefer to marry other Pakistanis, after throughly investigating the character of the potential spouse and their parents.

If we are going to work to build the next generation of patriotic, in-touch Pakistanis in the West, we need to provide them with skills necessary to be able to relate to their family.

It means emphasis on language (Urdu firstly, then Punjabi, Pukhto, Seraiki, Hinduism, etc.,) then history (Pre-Islamic, Islamic Empires, British occupation, and Pakistan formation/history,) folk culture (poetry like that of Allama Iqbal, Faiz Ahmad Faiz, Bahadur Shah Zafar, Bulleh Shah, Waris Shah, Jan Fishan Khan, etc. and romances like Heer Ranjha, Soni Mahiwal, Sussi Punoon, Mirza Sahiban,) and genealogy (family shajarat un nisab, zats/tribes of Pakistan.)

It can only be done with two parents focusing on childrens’ upbringing to create an ideal Pakistani, which will not lose their connections to the motherland.



American whites are the most abusive males on the face of the Earth. Forget Arabs, Pakistanis, Afghans, or anyone else.

The amount of white patients I have dealt with who suffer from abuse, rape, emotional torture, and intense physical violence is phenomenal.

Pakistanis, and other Muslims, are stereotyped this way, but when it comes to rape, child abuse, and domestic abuse, White males take the cake.

I have had to console and send many of them to therapy, it is very distressing.



Many of them end up regretting it later on in life, but by then it is too late.

Re.Arabs

Yep they defiantly do, they come from strict cultures back home and it’s like a dream come true to have a white g/f or wife. When I was living in England I saw many funerals of Arab Muslims who had married white women who did not convert....their children were like gore and many of them were playing bagpipes and all sorts of musical instruments when their casket was being unloaded or being taken to the graveyard. So many graves of Yemenis who came to the Uk in the 50’s...they’r graves are in ruins because no one goes there ...sad. This is why Islam tells us to choose pious and noble partners

 

[Philip the Arab]

I am of the opinion that Pakistanis should prefer to marry other Pakistanis, after throughly investigating the character of the potential spouse and their parents.

If we are going to work to build the next generation of patriotic, in-touch Pakistanis in the West, we need to provide them with skills necessary to be able to relate to their family.

It means emphasis on language (Urdu firstly, then Punjabi, Pukhto, Seraiki, Hinduism, etc.,) then history (Pre-Islamic, Islamic Empires, British occupation, and Pakistan formation/history,) folk culture (poetry like that of Allama Iqbal, Faiz Ahmad Faiz, Bahadur Shah Zafar, Bulleh Shah, Waris Shah, Jan Fishan Khan, etc. and romances like Heer Ranjha, Soni Mahiwal, Sussi Punoon, Mirza Sahiban,) and genealogy (family shajarat un nisab, zats/tribes of Pakistan.)

It can only be done with two parents focusing on childrens’ upbringing to create an ideal Pakistani, which will not lose their connections to the motherland.



American whites are the most abusive males on the face of the Earth. Forget Arabs, Pakistanis, Afghans, or anyone else.

The amount of white patients I have dealt with who suffer from abuse, rape, emotional torture, and intense physical violence is phenomenal.

Pakistanis, and other Muslims, are stereotyped this way, but when it comes to rape, child abuse, and domestic abuse, White males take the cake.

I have had to console and send many of them to therapy, it is very distressing.



Many of them end up regretting it later on in life, but by then it is too late.

For your last words... Bosnians are technically White Muslims and I knew a family whose mother was Bosnian and whose father was a Irish revert. The mother wore a Niqab and well the father was in prison but the West messed up their kids. Her daughter wore a hijab and was LESBIAN which is really, really stupid and I think the mom did regret sending her daughter to public school here.

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

I think it’s injustice when an educated girl gets married to an uneducated freshie from home because her chances of having a secure future are shot to pieces because the best the freshie will be able to do is work in a shop or drive a taxi....

You may think I’m being sexist but for an overseas Pakistani man to marry a girl with little education from back home is not that same thing because he is the primary breadwinner not her.

actually you don't need to be educated to earn money and some uneducated folks are more sharp than educated folks. You see that those were uneducated parent who managed to give better expensive education to their children because of which now they are ministers in government i.e mayor of London and home secretary but I agree with you that couple should be compatible to each others mentally otherwise they will struggle to cope with each others

 

[Philip the Arab]

Re.Arabs

Yep they defiantly do, they come from strict cultures back home and it’s like a dream come true to have a white g/f or wife. When I was living in England I saw many funerals of Arab Muslims who had married white women who did not convert....their children were like gore and many of them were playing bagpipes and all sorts of musical instruments when their casket was being unloaded or being taken to the graveyard. So many graves of Yemenis who came to the Uk in the 50’s...they’r graves are in ruins because no one goes there ...sad. This is why Islam tells us to choose pious and noble partners

It all depends on if the mother converts... I have a 2 uncles who married White woman that converted and the kids turned out pretty conservative and all are Muslim.

 

[Wa Muhammada]

I am of the opinion that Pakistanis should prefer to marry other Pakistanis, after throughly investigating the character of the potential spouse and their parents.

If we are going to work to build the next generation of patriotic, in-touch Pakistanis in the West, we need to provide them with skills necessary to be able to relate to their family.

It means emphasis on language (Urdu firstly, then Punjabi, Pukhto, Seraiki, Hinduism, etc.,) then history (Pre-Islamic, Islamic Empires, British occupation, and Pakistan formation/history,) folk culture (poetry like that of Allama Iqbal, Faiz Ahmad Faiz, Bahadur Shah Zafar, Bulleh Shah, Waris Shah, Jan Fishan Khan, etc. and romances like Heer Ranjha, Soni Mahiwal, Sussi Punoon, Mirza Sahiban,) and genealogy (family shajarat un nisab, zats/tribes of Pakistan.)

It can only be done with two parents focusing on childrens’ upbringing to create an ideal Pakistani, which will not lose their connections to the motherland.



American whites are the most abusive males on the face of the Earth. Forget Arabs, Pakistanis, Afghans, or anyone else.

The amount of white patients I have dealt with who suffer from abuse, rape, emotional torture, and intense physical violence is phenomenal.

Pakistanis, and other Muslims, are stereotyped this way, but when it comes to rape, child abuse, and domestic abuse, White males take the cake.

I have had to console and send many of them to therapy, it is very distressing.



Many of them end up regretting it later on in life, but by then it is too late.

Unless the ‘state’ fixes Pakistan... the next generation of overseas Pakistanis will cut their links with Pakistan or just stop coming at all. Except Mirpuris many overseas Pakistani find their ancestral home a bit like the Wild West

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

Off-topic warning------- I'm not sure if this is true but since I'm half White do you think it would be easier for me to marry a White woman than someone of full Arab descent?

Marry an Arab and recover part of your culture. You will not regret, but you have to be tough and strong, Arab women are very strong females (regardless of stereotypes.)

Preferably, she should be fluent in Arabic , religion, and culture. It will be for the best.

Your children will be somewhat immune to the massive upheaval and decay going on in the surrounding white society.

Get them married to Arabs too.

 

[Yankee-stani]

I am of the opinion that Pakistanis should prefer to marry other Pakistanis, after throughly investigating the character of the potential spouse and their parents.

If we are going to work to build the next generation of patriotic, in-touch Pakistanis in the West, we need to provide them with skills necessary to be able to relate to their family.

It means emphasis on language (Urdu firstly, then Punjabi, Pukhto, Seraiki, Hinduism, etc.,) then history (Pre-Islamic, Islamic Empires, British occupation, and Pakistan formation/history,) folk culture (poetry like that of Allama Iqbal, Faiz Ahmad Faiz, Bahadur Shah Zafar, Bulleh Shah, Waris Shah, Jan Fishan Khan, etc. and romances like Heer Ranjha, Soni Mahiwal, Sussi Punoon, Mirza Sahiban,) and genealogy (family shajarat un nisab, zats/tribes of Pakistan.)

It can only be done with two parents focusing on childrens’ upbringing to create an ideal Pakistani, which will not lose their connections to the motherland.



American whites are the most abusive males on the face of the Earth. Forget Arabs, Pakistanis, Afghans, or anyone else.

The amount of white patients I have dealt with who suffer from abuse, rape, emotional torture, and intense physical violence is phenomenal.

Pakistanis, and other Muslims, are stereotyped this way, but when it comes to rape, child abuse, and domestic abuse, White males take the cake.

I have had to console and send many of them to therapy, it is very distressing.



Many of them end up regretting it later on in life, but by then it is too late.

I have no hope for the majority of the Pakistani diaspora let's be honest our diaspora is filled wot sell outs and traitors only few individuals like you and me might care some us might not know Urdu or are not racially full Pakistani but are nationalists unlike these self hate pure "Pakistanis" I don't think the situation will improve in the diaspora more men as @Wa Muhammada said in previous post will marry out to other Muslim groups if I do intend to do that I will replicate what my father did when I was growing up constant trips to Pakistan once I have enough money I want to he able travel first and understand which place can be a great 2nd home after Pakistan, there is a stereotype among the uncles and older gen that Half Pakistanis are less religious or less Pakistani pure idiocy and wrong I am half Pakistani I don't really speak that great Urdu at all but I am more nationalistic than these pure Pakistanis out there as @Philip the Arab said it all depends on upbringing


ANYWAYS PAKISTAN ZINDABAD

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

For your last words... Bosnians are technically White Muslims and I knew a family whose mother was Bosnian and whose father was a Irish revert. The mother wore a Niqab and well the father was in prison but the West messed up their kids. Her daughter wore a hijab and was LESBIAN which is really, really stupid and I think the mom did regret sending her daughter to public school here.

By White, I meant White Christian Anglo-German-Irish etc.

Those stories you can find everywhere in the West, in any culture. Scary stuff.

 

[ShaikhKamal]

Better then being married off to a fucking dog like in your country India.

LOL ! I guess all the Pakistani have been manufactured in the same factory with same hardware and software. They all look and think alike. OMG we are all clones !

 

[Dubious]

Many women around the world are in abusive marriages.....but sure Pakistanis also are mortal with problems...


Problem is difference in mindset.....parents need to understand marriage is not decided by age but through understanding and mindset needs to meet....

What is the use of marrying your child on time into hell? Or marrying him/her to someone for other people's approval? People who will only attend one day of shadi function while your child burns in hell?


People spend more time choosing a car than finding out about their child's future spouse?!

You have to find best spouse in the first marriage, make your best effort to make it work and treat the other with love and respect. After the divorce, if you want to remarry you will only find men and women who have been also hurt by their spouses in their first marriages and carry extra baggage and maybe children too..

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[Wa Muhammada]

Better then being married off to a fucking dog like in your country India.

Hahaha

Give this man more likes for his comment...

 

[Yankee-stani]

Unless the ‘state’ fixes Pakistan... the next generation of overseas Pakistanis will cut their links with Pakistan or just stop coming at all. Except Mirpuris many overseas Pakistani find their ancestral home a bit like the Wild West

I actually agree with OP If the state does not improve Pakistan more and more of the diaspora will stop caring I wont but many will that's what I was implying in my post

Many women around the world are in abusive marriages.....but sure Pakistanis also are mortal with problems...


Problem is difference in mindset.....parents need to understand marriage is not decided by age but through understanding and mindset needs to meet....

What is the use of marrying your child on time into hell? Or marrying him/her to someone for other people's approval? People who will only attend one day of shadi function while your child burns in hell?


People spend more time choosing a car than finding out about their child's future spouse?!


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This I agree the old gen and uncles want to wear their best suits and shalwar kameez for bloody marriage ceremony while their son and daughter are not even happy this what pushes our young folk away from Pakistan and the stagnation of the state as stated clearly by @Wa Muhammada does not help at all

 

[Philip the Arab]

Marry an Arab and recover part of your culture. You will not regret, but you have to be tough and strong, Arab women are very strong females (regardless of stereotypes.)

Preferably, she should be fluent in Arabic , religion, and culture. It will be for the best.

Your children will be somewhat immune to the massive upheaval and decay going on in the surrounding white society.

Get them married to Arabs too.

Arab woman raised here are generally westernized a little too much for my taste. I would have to get one from a foreign country and I doubt she would speak fluent English which could be an impediment here in America.

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I have no hope for the majority of the Pakistani diaspora let's be honest our diaspora is filled wot sell outs and traitors only few individuals like you and me might care some us might not know Urdu or are not racially full Pakistani but are nationalists unlike these self hate pure "Pakistanis" I don't think the situation will improve in the diaspora more men as @Wa Muhammada said in previous post will marry out to other Muslim groups if I do intend to do that I will replicate what my father did when I was growing up constant trips to Pakistan once I have enough money I want to he able travel first and understand which place can be a great 2nd home after Pakistan, there is a stereotype among the uncles and older gen that Half Pakistanis are less religious or less Pakistani pure idiocy and wrong I am half Pakistani I don't really speak that great Urdu at all but I am more nationalistic than these pure Pakistanis out there as @Philip the Arab said it all depends on upbringing


ANYWAYS PAKISTAN ZINDABAD

Bruh... How Is your arm that hairy at 21? You turning into bigfoot or something?

 

[Wa Muhammada]

Marry an Arab and recover part of your culture. You will not regret, but you have to be tough and strong, Arab women are very strong females (regardless of stereotypes.)

Preferably, she should be fluent in Arabic , religion, and culture. It will be for the best.

Your children will be somewhat immune to the massive upheaval and decay going on in the surrounding white society.

Get them married to Arabs too.

Bhai Jaan,

Gr8 advice...seriously

Your in the wrong profession... you should be a marriage consultant