Naswarville

[Dubious]

what do you think makes them dheet? dont say they are dheet by nature.

Coz they just dont get why they got hit...I clearly said I do not support excessive beating nor unreasonable beating...But a kid needs to learn good and bad..and that they are consequences to what they do...and that there re punishments for what they do bad!

see you dont have any idea of what good parenting is.

anyway, your cubs, your choice, their luck !!

And you do? I asked you 1 too many times tell us your ways...but all you said is distract them...do you think a child forgets easily? Nope they do not!

 

[Amaa'n]

what do you think makes them dheet? dont say they are dheet by nature.

Kuch paidashy hotay hain...ab razpak ko dekhlo ....jitna marzi ban karo ....har bar waisy ka waisa hota hai....kou asar he nahin.......
On the serious note.....use of execessive beating....and thats what we are against

 

[Leader]

@Talon @balixd @Leader...

3 years before,I started a thread in another forum...where we were discussing the best ways of parenting...posters were non-Muslim,Americans,British.
and majority of them were literally against the theory to become child's friend..majority were saying that child should be spanked when needed and he/she should be treated like a child.

so you go by the opinion of the majority, simply because its in majority, so its right too?

 

[RAMPAGE]

my friend's freaking out

 

[Slav Defence]

Mein tou bechari ko raasta bta taha tha airport ka.....usne goodwill ke tor par fish fillet burger khila diya ab mein na kaisy bol sakta tha....

haan haan "mai tu rastay pay jaraha tha...bhelpoori kha raha tha....larki ghumaraha tha......
tum tu masoom ho....dekho @RAMPAGE ne evidence bhi dediya hai.....emillie watson....24 years old...student....pata kerwaya hai mai ne...tum ne shadi ka wada kiya phir uncle se pitne k baad dhoka diya....

 

[Amaa'n]

my friend's freaking out

Konsa friend?

 

[Dubious]

so you go by the opinion of the majority, simply because its in majority, so its right too?

He was presenting ideas of what majority think...didnt say just coz it is majority that is why it is right...But it is based on majority's experience maybe...why jumping to conclusion?!

 

[RAMPAGE]

=Slav Defence;4451037]haan haan "mai tu rastay pay jaraha tha...bhelpoori kha raha tha....larki ghumaraha tha......
tum tu masoom ho....dekho @RAMPAGE ne evidence bhi dediya hai.....emillie watson....24 years old...student....pata kerwaya hai mai ne...tum ne shadi ka wada kiya phir uncle se pitne k baad dhoka diya....

@balixd bhai nai mere pehlay din mujhay manners sikha diay thay ! no im not taking about him

 

[Amaa'n]

haan haan "mai tu rastay pay jaraha tha...bhelpoori kha raha tha....larki ghumaraha tha......
tum tu masoom ho....dekho @RAMPAGE ne evidence bhi dediya hai.....emillie watson....24 years old...student....pata kerwaya hai mai ne...tum ne shadi ka wada kiya phir uncle se pitne k baad dhoka diya....

Oye pagal meine dokha nahin diya...woh kisi molvi kay saath bagh gaye....ab mein kya karon....moula power rox in pakisan...

 

[Dubious]

@balixd bhai nai mere pehlay din mujhay manners sikha diay thay ! no im not taking about him

@Leader and dekho isko ab tak yaad hain...issay kehtay hain discipline

 

[Leader]

Coz they just dont get why they got hit...I clearly said I do not support excessive beating nor unreasonable beating...But a kid needs to learn good and bad..and that they are consequences to what they do...and that there re punishments for what they do bad!



And you do? I asked you 1 too many times tell us your ways...but all you said is distract them...do you think a child forgets easily? Nope they do not!

exactly, treated like donkeys !!

you never asked for a lecture on good parenting, learning for a starter point; not to beat/threaten as the philosophy is flawed and based on fear, but even the picture didnt touch your imagination and you came up with a gem thought "Coz they just dont get why they got hit".

lets first relearn to begin with, here is a basic principle, "the kids are like monkeys, not donkeys" as your red highlighted thought suggested otherwise.

if you are able to learn this basic principle, you wont need to ask for what is good parenting.

 

[RAMPAGE]

@Leader and dekho isko ab tak yaad hain...issay kehtay hain discipline

baji aap ko bhi yaad hai

 

[Amaa'n]

@balixd bhai nai mere pehlay din mujhay manners sikha diay thay ! no im not taking about him

Hahaha.. @Slav Defence ab bolo ...tumhara tou gawa he baat se phir gaya.....shabash mere cheetay...

 

[Slav Defence]

so you go by the opinion of the majority, simply because its in majority, so its right too?

No..leader....but this is fact....our behaviour must be balanced specially for child raise..dekho...ghar ka ek ferd zaroor aisa ho jis se bachay thora sa darein specially father/mother mai se kisi ek ki personality aisee honi chahiye.

while doosra spouse thora lenient ho..is se buhat balance rehta hai...relationship mai...especially bachon ki training mai...

@balixd bhai nai mere pehlay din mujhay manners sikha diay thay ! no im not taking about him

kiya matlab??

Hahaha.. @Slav Defence ab bolo ...tumhara tou gawa he baat se phir gaya.....shabash mere cheetay...

han han..jab raat ko is k ghar call ker ghar se uthwane ki dhamki do gay..tu us becharay choozay ko party badalna hi hogi na...baat se phiray ga nahi tu aur kiya keray ga...

 

[Dubious]

exactly, treated like donkeys !!

you never asked for a lecture on good parenting, learning for a starter point; not to beat/threaten as the philosophy is flawed and based on fear, but even the picture didnt touch your imagination and you came up with a gem thought "Coz they just dont get why they got hit".

lets first relearn to begin with, here is a basic principle, "the kids are like monkeys, not donkeys" as your red highlighted thought suggested otherwise.

if you are able to learn this basic principle, you wont need to ask for what is good parenting.

I think you either cant pass your message properly or you refuse to say anything out right because you know it is not 100% true?