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Let me tell you a story my mumani told me and I loved it :smitten:

It was about this Pakistani writer (I do not remember tiny details but will try my best)

Ashfaq Ahmed nay pata nai likha tha or he was describing his experience....

He was abroad and had gone to meet some friend in some European country. He was talking to the lady of the house in the living room over a cup of tea when suddenly a kid of around 10-12 yrs of age (i honestly forgot what the age was) came jumping about in the living room and did his naughtyness and was rude to the guest. The mother looked apologetically at the guest and said we are taught not to beat or scold our kids as it hinders their development...

The child was rude and disobedient to his mother. The mother excused herself as she wanted to make a phone call to her husband and moved to other other room leaving the guest with the child. The kid came over to the guest, pulled his face by the mustache and slapped him hard. The guest was shocked and didnt know how to react in the meanwhile the mother came back and the kid acted as though nothing happened.

The mother informed that her husband wont be joining them as he is busy and they proceeded with dinner. On the dining table both (another boy of age 7) the children were playing with the food and threw it at the guest. Again the mother apologized and emphasized they do not discipline their children as it hinders their development.

The mother again excused herself and when she left the guest got up and gave a hard smack to each child and gave them a warning + angry stare and went back to his seat as though nothing happened....When the mother returned she saw both boys behaving and the mother said see the children behave themselves after awhile....

The author concluded I have seen how they are going to raise their children ineffectively and I have seen that our formula works better on them in terms of discipline otherwise the formula applied by the west has not yielded any miracles and they are not going to behave ...

This is a summary in my own words at least you get the essence of the story ;)

Whatcha guys think? :pop:
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that happened with Ashfaq Ahmad himself. he told that in Zavia program

Talon said:
I am youngest daughter of the eldest son....so yea I cant tolerate much nonesense from my younger cousins! Seriously ALL of them have been beaten by me at least twice in their life...Though I only go to Pakistan once in 1-2 yrs and even that is enough to get me to beat them twice in THEIR lives :rofl:

Though at the time of the beating they were STILL rebellious at least now they are in A-Levels and Uni they are MUCH behaved as compared to the new kids (their younger cousins who have never even heard a raised voice) man those are alien kids but they fear me coz of what the other cousins say so they behave....

A little fear is necessary...at least at a young age....And I dont go beating them for no reason, only if they EXCESSIVELY misbehave or have failed in a subject because they didnt study .....1 recently failed and he was soo embarrassed to come near us and I told him its ok...try again next time but make sure you pass...Till date his mom cant control him but my family being the eldest son's is slightly privileged and gets away with a few things :ashamed:

Basically I believe in disciplining at a certain age and nothing excessive! Just enough to pass the message that you cant get away with everything and stay in you limits...yea I am a kid of the previous generation :ashamed:
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dont agreeeeeeeeeeeeee with you thoughts at alllllllll........... :angry:
 
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that happened with Ashfaq Ahmad himself. he told that in Zavia program
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My mumani read it to us from some book with storys of Ashfaq Ahmad or stories by Ashfaq Ahmad ...that was the best 1 I liked :rofl:


Leader said:
dont agreeeeeeeeeeeeee with you thoughts at alllllllll........... :angry:
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No problem kid, we all have our own opinions ;)
 
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that happened with Ashfaq Ahmad himself. he told that in Zavia program[/QUOTE] My mumani read it to us from some book with storys of Ashfaq Ahmad or stories by Ashfaq Ahmad ...that was the best 1 I liked :rofl:

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dont agreeeeeeeeeeeeee with you thoughts at alllllllll........... :angry:[/QUOTE]
No problem kid, we all have our own opinions ;)[/QUOTE]

lol.once I read his story.....tota kahani(parrot story) and after reading Unit #01 I was so freaked out.....:hitwall:
 
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Talon said:
About?! :unsure:
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story of course....written by him....in that story he discussed the relationship of wife-husband relationship that how much her mate/spouse suffered when she was doing job etc....

Very BORING :confused:
 
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