Apples and oranges comparison.
Bangladesh's main beef with India is water sharing. The rest of the problems (Bangladeshis getting shot while tresspassing, trade imbalance, etc..) are self-inflicted.
Myanmar on the other hand pushes Rohigyas in.
The other problems are sort of self-inflicted (smuggling in of illicit substances, etc..).
India is only a long-term threat, Myanmar is the immediate and long-term threat UNLESS they are handled with. Once you handle Myanmar then India itself will back off. Everybody takes advantage of someone who allows themselves to be pushed around.
I disagree the border shootings are entirely self-inflected. Nepalis and Bhutanese are not being shot at. Not all of the BD herders shot are even on their side of the border. They kill people randomly. Their mentality is if they see someone with a cow, that's a cow-eater and therefore their Hindutva instinct is to shoot.
Our approach with India should be non-confrontational but to gain economic independence instead of importing tons and tons of food from them. BD is theoretically supposed to be the Breadbasket of Asia and exporting to the world, not importing. We have the most fertile soil in the world because we have more rivers per inch than anywhere on the planet!! Instead we've suffered multiple famines! (Read: famine, not DROUGHT which is impossible)
South Asia is a region of religious nutters who take religion way too literally. It is only natural that anti-Muslim rhetorics sell well among ultra-Hindu nationalist voters in India.
In regards to the citizenship issue, I would only care if India actually tries to mass deport Indian Muslims into BD.
Burma have already pushed in theirs so they are a bigger threat in regards to human push-ins.
Add to that the fact that our biggest ally China leans towards Burma due to their own economic interests (gas supply, port access, etc..)
On the other hand, India selfishly alters with river water flow which does extensive damage to the livelihoods of millions of Bangladesh making India a much much bigger economic threat.
Hence this is an apples and oranges comparision.
The bottom line is India and Myanmar are unique threats that we need to deal with simultaneously.
We cannot ignore one and focus on the other.
Why do you think India stripped 2-million Assam Muslims of citizenship? It's precisely because India plans to push them into Bangladesh in a few years. By that point it will be 4-million Assamese.
People don't realize the Muslim world and int'l community's apathy towards the Rohingya Genocide is precisely why India and China became emboldened to take measures against the Assam Muslims and Uighurs. They saw there was no repercussion, and now they're doing the same. It's all a DOMINO effect.
In a matter of years, we'll have 2-4 mill Rohingya stuck in the south and another 4 mill Assam Muslims being pushed into the north. Then we'll have impoverished migrants engaging in crime to support themselves on one hand, and xenophobia against them on the other hand. Then combine that with natural disasters and we can watch the country finally implode.