The very fact that such a discussion is taking place, on such a simple a topic, which is dividing the Indian nation on the streets is shameful on it's own.
India is not some western nation with centuries of enlightenment movements behind it, that evolved under various modernist philosophical and religious movements to drive it forward.
India was and remains a deeply conservative society, where women of all faiths, including Muslims, Christian and Hindu amongst others are the honour of the family and carry all the implications associated with that honorific title.
"Purdah" in various forms is alive among Hindus, Muslims and other religious groups of India, it is not an alien concept, if anyone does not know, then they are blind to the reality of India. India remains a deeply traditional society, baring silly pockets in urban areas, who seem to think they represent India, they are nothing but a speck of dirt on the landscape that is India.
You all should be worried that you are having to argue on such a topic, whether attacking or in defence, it is not a good omen, a good sign, nor a good harbinger of things to come.
Good luck to all of you, I am certain if such dramas continue, you are going to need all of it, and more.