No India bashing, let's be realistic, US, Russia, China etc. are super powers, and then there is India which fancies it'self as a mini super power. Agreed India is most populous and area enveloping country in the sub-continent, yet instead of it adopting the role of say big brother, you judge for your self what kind of relationship it has with it's immediate smaller neighbours, be it Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal or
Sri Lanka, not forgetting the out come for Bhutan and Sikam. If Pakistan has a grudge against India then it's worth remembering that it has been the victim of Indian aggression twice, once resulting in it's Eastern wing being dissected. India has been repeatedly by passing un resolutions on Kashmir not to mention the Indus water treaty.
In this day and age, when even Bangladesh has been standing up to Indian aggression, for Pakistan, the mind set is, there are old scores to settle. Regards.
Everyone knows that India is not a superpower. US is the sole superpower. China is its way-up to "become" a superpower. Russia is on its way down, the only reason is because it has ICBMs.
India has the capacity to influence eventhough we are smaller than China. By nominal calculation, Chinese economy is three times India's and India's economy is nine times Pakistan's. In PPP terms, India's economy is slightly more than half of Chinese economy. That is where we stand today.
Not regarding your understanding of India's relations with its neighbors.
Nepal:
The most friendliest state. India gives them free access to Indian markets. There is no visa required for Nepalese to visit India. They use Indian rupees in addition to Nepal rupees in Nepal for regular day-to-day transactions.
Bangladesh:
Their government is very supportive of India. India provided them free corridor to connect to Nepal and from there to China. Indian RAW provided intelligence to Bangladeshi govt to help from support attack on their PM.
Sri Lanka:
When Sri Lanka had fear of coup, they thought of India. India provided them arms and military weapons now and then. The friction was basically because of Tamils in India wanted to support LLTE. But unlike Pakistani "moral support", India did not provide any money or arms to LTTE.
Bhutan:
India provides huge economic assitance to Bhutan. The hydel power project that was almost by large percentage funded by India grew Bhutan's economy by 24%.
Maldives:
Their government was saved by India from an attack from LTTE. They are now under Indian security umbrella.
Pakistan:
Pakistan sends terrorists to India and then turns around to blame India for supporting TTP and Balochis. They have more than adequate proof but that cannot be supplied as they are careful not to harm India's image like Pakistan's image is hurt in world scene.
So rather than going on by what members say here, see the value by their actions. And also friendly to China does not mean unfriendly to India. There is India-China friction but that is no way comparable to what we have in case of Pakistan.
Pakistan's old score may turn out be night mare for it because Pakistan hardly has any chance against conventionally. The only issue is nuclear assets and even that is controlled by American forces. And your wellwisher i.e. me hope that it is best interest of Pakistan to keep those nuclear assets and stoke them up rather than use them as you won't need any advise from me to know the response.