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I agree with Areesh and am glad he provides a reality check to the real world away from forums.

The reality is we are enemies. Enemies kill each other. Not write school essays.

So Kaptaan and patriot, suck it up, quit whining, and act like good enemies. This is getting on Oprah here.
 
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There is prevalent trend of self aggrandizement among especially Indian Hindus. It oozes from the way they talk. One example of it is the way you once nonchalantly called Pakistanis "savages".

How that amounts to 'self-aggrandizement' beats me. How you have decided that I am an Indian Hindu beats me. And you are guilty of suggestio falsi in saying I called Pakistanis savages. Look it up once again. You have said this before, and I have pointed out that you were wrong, that calling a pattern of behaviour savage does not amount to calling an entire nation savage. Shouldn't you be looking for a promising career in some government propaganda department?

No, I did not know what it was but thanks to you I am 'educated'. I agree with this theory from my personal example. I would never use the language I use on internet in real life. For a start I would have never got far in business with that sort of language but asides that education refines a person and uncouth language is not becoming of decent person. However on internet it is free for all - I guess it's like those Japanese Manga comics. The readers don't play out what they read. As soon as the close the comic reality is so well differant.

British in particular are very PC and the culture strives for a clean language - over time if your immersed in it you become like that. Of course anonymity allows you the freedom to let go and have catharitic release.

I don't understand this behaviour that you have described. My normal, everyday speech and writing and my writing on PDF, or elsewhere on the 'Net, are identical. I would be ashamed to use the language that I have seen people write here, but there never has been any need to mince my words, while continuing to use civil and acceptable language. Is it therefore that those less equipped resort to these shortcuts? Not possible; I have been privileged to read the writing of some of those commenting, and I have seldom seen a higher class of expression.

It seems to me that more than the role-playing through language, it is the role-playing through attitude that is important; the language use is carried along helplessly. It also seems to me that many repressed causes of anger in day-to-day matters is reflected through people's comments in anonymity on the 'Net; although there again, cases of Indians and Pakistanis working together and getting to dislike each other do not seem to be anywhere as widespread as the cases of people coming on line to scream their lungs out at each other.

What on earth is this about?

I don't normally read Indian newspapers but after I saw the post about the new Gen. Bajwa, I did a quick google to see who he is and TOI came at top so I clicked that and then came across the comments section. No idea where TOI fits in the Indian media pegging order but I thought the name sounded fancy and sort of flagship/quality paper. Thus my surprise with comments.

It is a horrible rag. Please don't get me started; when they dispensed with editors because the proprietors decided that a newspaper was a business and should be run like a business and the editorial staff were merely nuisances and extravagances, the game was up. It was a great paper thirty years ago, under Sham Lal and people like that. Unfortunately the paper they use is not good enough for use in the smallest room in the house, so it has no intrinsic value whatsoever.

I have no idea how ToI was in the past. But I guess it was bought by US based Times group and after that it has become pure sh!t. If reading for literature, strategic knowledge and verified news Times of India is not for anyone. They also come up on most provocative titles.

As far as I know, it is still owned and managed by the Bennett Coleman Group. And if you look at the antecedents of that group, you go straight back to Haridas Mundhra. For anyone familiar with recent Indian social and political history, the Jeep Scandal, the resignation of the minister T. T. Krishnamachari, and the association of the notorious Mundhra, the one with a compound with a house in each corner for each of his 'wives', is well-known. They were from the gutter, and it shows.

For India's prestigious Civil Service Examinations, all the coaching centres persuade students on studying "The Hindu". Its editorial , OP-ED are world class, though its not famous with some section of people because of neutral stand or anti-BJP stand on some issues. ToI is only for those who likes Masala in our daily lives.

It was neutral. Under Ram, it became rather less so. He was/is an inveterate Marxist. Not just the intellectual sort, but the political sort. He is now out of the management, due to a family restructuring. I hope it returns to neutrality and that it continues with its famous checking of stories for authenticity with unrelenting effort until the facts are clear, and then published with minimal embellishment.

I have stopped reading TOI, YTube and Facebook comments and I agree, people responding in the most irritating and stupid way overwhelmes the sane ones. Unfortunately, in these days internet has become a handy tool to brainwash people who hardly care to chase the veracity of any news they come across on internet.

This considerable part of Indian population may hold degrees required to get a job, an internet connection but yet lack minimum common sense. Few days back, a man commented on Facebook against demonetization and 99% of the replies he got was associated with his religion. I was so disgusted about the responses that I apologized immediately on behalf of the morons.

The largest part of the population, I think cares more for their daily livings. The second largest part, this 'educated' middle class generation have been through a terrible education system and there lies the problem. Unless we introduce more sophisticated curriculum in our education system this is going to be a major trouble for Indian society in future.

Thank you for summing it up so well.

It started with the explosion in professional education, which brought in huge numbers of those whose families had not dreamt of higher education before due to sheer lack of opportunity. While these young people got trained, rather than educated, there was never that emphasis on the arts and humanities that had existed earlier, and we found ourselves with a 'middle-class' with the following characteristics:
  1. Knowing their history and their culture only through the Internet and through their family and group prejudices;
  2. Trained and therefore acceptable in well-paid jobs, and suddenly affluent, members of the 'middle-class';
  3. More often than not members of the privileged sections of society, in social and cultural terms if not economic, and given to despising the less privileged or belonging to another religion, blaming them for all that is going wrong, or had gone wrong;
  4. Bearing the attitudes and the thinking of the small-town/villages that many rose from;
  5. Affiliated to the religious right, and alien to the influence of urban life and its moderating influence on religious and social belief systems;
  6. Hating the earlier political set-up and blaming it for partition, for favouring minorities for political gains, and for being insufficiently pro-business (to be read as insufficiently pro-businessman);
  7. Hungry for the continuation of the good life that was interrupted by UPA2.
Put this together, and we have the Internet Hindu.

When I first joined this forum in 2010, I didn't have the hate for bhartis that I have now. It seems like online only 20% of Indians are polite. The rest are scumbags suckling on their mothers' breasts talking big online. Insulting not only Pakistan, but all Muslims. I ignored Indians for the first 7 months I was here because I was only concerned with issues regarding Pakistan. Eventually, these disgusting people turned me into a hate filled bigot that spat the same vitriol as they did. In essence, I became what I deplored. I became what I hated. I turned into one of them.

These days I take it easy on them because they are weak people. The sick dog always barks the most. The funny thing is that when I meet Indians here in the States, they are always trying to kiss up to me. It's those same types that talk shit on the internet.

I don't let it get to me anymore, but I do have fun once in a while. I get pissed when they claim IVC, or when they bring up 72 virgins, because most of the saffroni shit talkers on this website are virgins that claim to own a Royal enfield motorcyle and have Pakistan girlfriends while sitting in a slum or call center in Mumbai.

Don't let it get to you.

@Kaptaan

<phew!> Take it easy. You are reacting the way the worse elements that you despise hope that you will react. Is that what you want?

If anything recent events like the Trump election showed that there are real people behind these comments and real people who give these comments a thumbs up.
They might not represent the majority of its people since many would be poor hardworking folks who have a good heart and who don't nearly have enough time nor resources to log on to the internet but I have no doubts this presents a picture to us about the thinking of a new fundamentalist middleclass.

Please see the comments at #23 . It corroborates your conclusions.
 
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I see the point you raise @Kaptaan , and can empathize to an extent. We are/were both members of a western forum whose Asia section has been hijacked by chest thumping right wing Indians. However several years before you joined that forum, this was not the case, and there were actually some great Indian members on that forum (who too got silenced out by what I call the "modi brigade"). Rosi, a moderator on that forum had her nationalism, her loyalty to her country questioned by these extremists to the extent that she has left and its modi brigade Raj over there now as you know.

The point is, xenophobes do not necessarily exist to a greater extent in India (that would be illogical to presume). However they certainly have been far more successful in pushing out sane minded individuals from the center stage. Pakistan too has its fair share of similar minded people but the existence of individuals like Hassan Nisar or Cyril Almeida, or in fact even the moderation of online mediums like Defence.pk and Dawn newspaper show that the "sane" lot have been far more assertive and dominant, whereas in India they seem to have caved in to the jingoistic chest thumping right wing.

Tell me about it.

Part of the domination is due to financial subsidies, btw, and to police intimidation.


@Kaptaan

This is the unsavoury flip side. This is why most of the moderate and well-intentioned Indian members have stopped posting.

Don't get me wrong, I don't agree with the vast majority of stuff nisar says. My point is the very fact that individuals like him are given free space to talk and speak their mind in Pakistan, is in stark contrast to India where such individuals are immediately shut down and ostracised for being anti-national. Case in point is Arundhati Roy who has been receiving death threats because she has said things mainstream Indian media and the far right disagree with.
Again I don't agree with most of the stuff Nisar has to say, but i will most certainly defend his right to say it. That's what sets us apart from our neighbours.

Precisely.

Arundhati Roy is a good example: I don't agree with her, not a little bit, but she keeps us all honest, she forces self-examination on us, and that can only be a good thing.
 
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Could it be possible that while both people hate each other, the hate is stronger on the Indian side because it's been sustained and nurtured longer and stronger with tinder and fuel from the other side.

Don't jump on me for saying this but it's really difficult to like what we see. And what we see is an amalgam of a lot more than the 1% of the Pakistani fauji elite we see here.
 
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When desire is to take over the entire land of the other side , then hate is seeded to keep the locals' emotions charged and to justify any possible future plans to commit 47 riots like atrocities against people of other side.

We recently saw celebrations of kashmir bus civilians deaths and justification were dished out on this forum.
 
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I am often sniffed at for using harsh language with referance to Ganga Indian's. More than once Mods here have pointed fingers at me. I am often told that such language is not befitting od a TTC. Of course I have pointed out I would rather lose my status then change my stance.

The fact is and I can say this confidently - the language that Indian's use for Pakistani's or Pakistani extraction is far more vulgar, profane, demeaning then anything that Pakistani's throw back. The amount of filthy language that pours out of Indian's at every level of discourse is shocking. In fact on this score the Indian's wind hands down. I am by nature a very polite but over time have adjusted my language for Indian's.

Times of India appears to be a respectable flagship newspaper of India. Below is the language being used on a article in referance to Gen. Bajwa. P**orki, P**igs, Rape seem to be the default synonym for Pakistan. This applies across the board even on Western forums there is the same brazen use of language.

Compare this to any Pakistani newspapers and see what language is accepted - Try that on Dawn for example. Even saying 'Injun' would get moderator censor.

Ab ki bar bajwa ki baari...ab bajwa ki bajegi...haha

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Captain Zed - Thane - 47 mins ago
Right, is baar Bajwa ka bajeega baaja !!

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BTW Bajwa sounds so Indian, probably his ancestors were raped by mughlia army and forced to convert as is the case with all m**oosli Indian & p**aki p**igs...haha

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Link > http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...wa-as-new-army-chief/articleshow/55637786.cms

First of all
What is this Ganga Indians?
I have never seen such a terminology in India
Ganga Indians.?
AFAIK Ganga is a holyriver of India that is flowing through northern Indian states .

Second part is you can only see what you have prefer to see .
Every persons and nations have good and bad nature . You have seen ToI but you couldnt never see the 'The Hindu'.
Some says they are anti BJP or anti Indian.But I would say they are the most professional journalist establishment in India.You should have some minimum quality to read and understands the article in 'The Hindu'.

I wont read ToI .
And if you have had good intentions ,you should have post the comments from 'The Hindu'.
I have seen a lots of TTA and Mods in here but in here ,it was you ,the only one, that tries to propogate some kind of superiority mentality with psuedo historocal support.

Racism itself breed from lack wisdom and knowledge.
I have seen the way you commented about South Indians and posting their pictures.
 
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I am often sniffed at for using harsh language with referance to Ganga Indian's. More than once Mods here have pointed fingers at me. I am often told that such language is not befitting od a TTC. Of course I have pointed out I would rather lose my status then change my stance.

The fact is and I can say this confidently - the language that Indian's use for Pakistani's or Pakistani extraction is far more vulgar, profane, demeaning then anything that Pakistani's throw back. The amount of filthy language that pours out of Indian's at every level of discourse is shocking. In fact on this score the Indian's wind hands down. I am by nature a very polite but over time have adjusted my language for Indian's.

Times of India appears to be a respectable flagship newspaper of India. Below is the language being used on a article in referance to Gen. Bajwa. P**orki, P**igs, Rape seem to be the default synonym for Pakistan. This applies across the board even on Western forums there is the same brazen use of language.

Compare this to any Pakistani newspapers and see what language is accepted - Try that on Dawn for example. Even saying 'Injun' would get moderator censor.

Ab ki bar bajwa ki baari...ab bajwa ki bajegi...haha

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Captain Zed - Thane - 47 mins ago
Right, is baar Bajwa ka bajeega baaja !!

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Captain Zed - India - 1 hour ago
BTW Bajwa sounds so Indian, probably his ancestors were raped by mughlia army and forced to convert as is the case with all m**oosli Indian & p**aki p**igs...haha

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Link > http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...wa-as-new-army-chief/articleshow/55637786.cms
Are you saying 1.3 billion people are like this?
No sir. but because of some random comments on Internet you painted all Indians with same brush. you started throwing recist remarks towards 1.3 billion people after reading some random comments on Internet. sorry to say sir but you were always recist. and now you are hiding behind those comments to justify your racism . it's bitter but it's truth.
 
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When desire is to take over the entire land of the other side , then hate is seeded to keep the locals' emotions charged and to justify any possible future plans to commit 47 riots like atrocities against people of other side.

We recently saw celebrations of kashmir bus civilians deaths and justification were dished out on this forum.

It is really tiresome to read constantly that India wants to take over the entire land of the other side, ie, Pakistan. Except for that section, a fraction of a huge population which grants them seemingly high numbers, that is fanatic about Hindu supremacy, it is not an Indian country-wide sentiment to destroy Pakistan. I suspect that much of this feeling of insecurity is due to gradual and progressive failure in the frequent hostilities, and most particularly the forced division of 1971; that was an obvious trauma, as big a traumatic event as was 1962 for India. But that was an event with a strictly limited policy horizon; there was not, all suspicions to the contrary, any desire to see West Pakistan destroyed, then or later. Not in India as a country; the wild-eyed backwoodsmen who want this also want to expel all Muslims or convert them, expel all Christians or convert them, and reduce Dalits to the helot status that they had in history. They are not serious elements in the medium term; in the short term because of their victory in the last elections, they are a nuisance. That is all.

As for celebration of civilian deaths, that is deplorable. Celebration of any death is deplorable, including the deaths of servicemen doing their duty by their country, whichever 'side' they belong to. But you are being very jaundiced in mentioning this; please look at the horrible record of members of the 'other side' and their comments about Indian deaths. Your comment was not a fair comment.

We are going through bleak times. It does not help to be accused of imaginary crimes, or to be accused of being a collective of bloodthirsty monsters constantly conspiring against our neighbours, just because of the social reality that we have a large number of people posting on the Internet fora who are frankly not fit to be on line in the first place, who desperately urgently need basic lessons in tolerance and harmonious co-existence.
 
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Ironically, the proper way to dispose of the quran is by burning it. So you would be doing the Islamic thing.

:) i have burnt the quran when we were travelling and couldn't carry it along nor dispose of it in a proper manner.
 
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Ironically, the proper way to dispose of the quran is by burning it. So you would be doing the Islamic thing.

:) i have burnt the quran when we were travelling and couldn't carry it along nor dispose of it in a proper manner.

That's not what I meant.

Neither was I referring to a popular app for those of my vintage ...
 
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Its only human to go through the negative emotions of anger, hatred, jealousy, greed etc but the language one uses reflects his/her maturity and upbringing. Many people claim that they are gentlemen in real life but Indians / Pakistanis provoke the beast out of them. I have never come across a mature, educated and cultured person who succumbs to slightest provocation. if it so happens his/her claims of etiquette is not valid.

The responsibility to keep a website clean rests with the administrators / moderators. When I was new to this forum, I faced lots of impertinence from some Pakistani members who resorted to filthy languages against me despite my being upfront with all that I was a woman. I have often been accused of being a man or a hindu by both Indians and Pakistanis on this forum as they could not argue with me beyond a point. And all these came from senior members and even moderators. I never complained. Not because it was acceptable to me but because we women often come across such nonsense in our lives and have learned to unheed such words and walk away from it.

It is wrong to generalize the people of one country to be hateful and abusive because we have such people in all the countries and societies. If moderators of a particular site are allowing filth to prevail then the blame goes to the site administrators. So when one says that ToI is bad and Dawn is good based on certain observations then its fairly acceptable but when the analogue is taken to the whole of India then its certainly not right.

Another observation is that for some in Pakistan India is synonymous with Hindu and all Indians are hindus. (vide the post #5 on this very thread). I also came across someone getting "pissed off" when Indians put a claim on Indus Valley Civilization. I would like to ask him how will he feel if Saudis start feeling the same about Qaba which is claimed by muslims all over the world. So if I can claim Qaba for my religious roots then why cant I claim IVC for my historical roots? In fact indus valley is also the place of Vedas. Now would you tell hindus to rewrite their history and stop claiming indus river valley to be the place of origin of their Vedas? Would it not be better to leave the history alone and stop trying to undo it.
 
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Comment section is often full of such childish comments. Don't care what Internet warriors say. We have many on PDF, rational folks like @Kaptaan need to understand that they are only wasting their time reading comments made by un-educated people(i am not talking about school education). And wasting their energy replying to idiotic comments.
Two wrongs don't make a right.
 
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