In our country... It is against the law for an unmarried couple to have sex... The law is derived from our beliefs... The moslem says, according to Qur'an, free sex is wrong... The christian either protestant and the catholic also said in their bible that free sex is wrong... I am sure hindus and buddha follower have the same rule about it... Every religion says the same about free sex... Free sex is wrong...
Dont comment just yet... Stay with me for a while, we will come to the point...
It is important, as an eastern culture country as indonesia, to uphold the culture... Our culture, as a nation, are based upon our beliefs...
So that means, our society, our people also have the same opinion about free sex... Free sex is wrong
I dont know what nationality you are right now, but if you dont agree with me in the 'free sex' thing... Well that is up to you... We could still be friends eventhough we dont always agree in some matters...
I hope you are still reading... Because i am about to closing in the topic you mentioned...
Indonesia consist of provinces... Some provinces had a special rights to specifically regulate their law different from the national law... But these laws are limited only in specific things... In these case, the enforcement of islamic law... Only one province declared this condition, and the province is Aceh Province...
Base upon the fear that the unmarried couple would lead to free sex, and to prevent the youngsters from following the act of free sex... The are several law that mandated restriction in man and woman interaction when they are not family related nor unmarried one...
A man and a woman just chit chat with each other in an open public place is allowed by these laws... But when an unmarried couple cuddle with each other in a private and closed place, the law will not allow that...
Those couple probably caught during their cuddling time...
The law also mandated that the police, the prosecutor must prove that the couple are guilty... They will be trial first... The couple is given the rights to defend them selves... And a council of islamic leader also present to give their opinion based upon our beliefs upon the matter...
So... There are laws... The citizen were given proper information about the law and restriction... But they just cant hold their lust... So they break the law... They got caught... They were trialled... The court find them guilty... They were punished...
In our society, dignity is an important thing... When the woman is caught, she gave a bad reputation to her family name... Society judgement is much more harder to bear compare to phisical punishment... That is why the punishment carried out in public... To set an example for the society... To warn the youngsters...
YOU SAID EARLIER THAT THE WOMAN WAS PUNISHED FOR DOING NOTHING...
In our belief, in our religion, free sex is wrong... A marriage, in our beliefs is a sacred commitment made by a man to the women's family that he will take responsibilities to take care of the woman... And the commitment is made in the name of Allah, God Almighty
A responsibility to fullfill the woman daily need, to protect the woman from harm, to guide the woman towards better understanding in implementing the beliefs in real life...
In Islam, a marriage is one way to respect a woman... We DO NOT see woman as merely a sex object, a tools to fulfill our desire... Nope, if we only see woman as a sex object, than we are disrespecting a woman, we disrespect our mothers... But instead, Islam put a woman dignity back, by a rule... A woman body can only be touch and be possesed by a man IF AND IF ONLY the man marry the woman...
And a marriage is about commitment, for both woman and man... To live together in happy or in bad times... In sickness and in health... Commitment to produce the next generation...
There is no commitment in free sex... Only couples lusting each other toward animal behaviour...
I am sorry for taking so much of your time
I am just trying to convince you that free sex is bad... Free sex is disrespecting a woman dignity...
And I am trully hoping that you are against free sex
Anyway... Thank you for your time... No heart feelings oke... All is well