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Is Attraction important?

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Yesterday I watched a movie of Rachel McAdams.movie name is The Vow.very old movie not new.i just love her eyes.oh my God, I was attracted but I know she is a hollywood actress hahahaha. But this attraction thing is true. Attraction is the key to marriage.you can't control your heart if you are attracted towards a lady.
 
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They live shorter,shittier lives i see nothing wrong in mocking their current state it could end up forcing them to do something about it
Will a junky change after mocking him? will an anorexic girl/guy will change after mocking him/her? etc... that's will not work with psychological disorder...

It's a long story...
 
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That's why I made the difference about being a little fat (or fat) and Obesity ( mostly morbid ones)
The more obese you are the shittier your life is but even slightly obese people will have more health problems compared to someone who is skinny or normal
 
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The more obese you are the shittier your life is but even slightly obese people will have more health problems compared to someone who is skinny or normal
That's ofc correct.
But the point wasn't about that... but how and why are they like that... and what can be done to change it.
 
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That's ofc correct.
But the point wasn't about that... but how and why are they like that... and what can be done to change it.
They eat a lot and prefer not to move around much
Will a junky change after mocking him? will an anorexic girl/guy will change after mocking him/her? etc... that's will not work with psychological disorder...

It's a long story...
They can think about things like workingout to get rid of it but they dont they are OK with being obese and they want society to accept that its ok to be fat which it clearly is not obesity is neither a race,religion nor it is a sexual orientation so all this discrimination bs is nonsense
 
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They eat a lot and prefer not to move around much

They can think about things like workingout to get rid of it but they dont they are OK with being obese and they want society to accept that its ok to be fat which it clearly is not obesity is neither a race,religion nor it is a sexual orientation so all this discrimination bs is nonsense

Well.. it seems you have strong views on that matter... So I don't think my view (and field of work) will change anything about it.

But, ask yourself: " Why do they eat till there is no end... till they "explode" "

Best regards.
 
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I just want to say that attraction exists.i don't know what they are talking about fat people small people or whatever lol. Thing is physical appearance always makes an impact.a beautiful girl with a beautiful smile can attract you.this is real.attraction have nothing to do with mental health.it is random.men can't deny attraction.if any one deny it,he is a liar.xd
 
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Being passionate about life is quite attractive to me.
Physique over face. And charm. That's a rare quality in people these days.
 
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haan baai kia chal raha hay? lolzz well I can't comment on wars over color of shoes or handbags since I was the least womenly most of my life. As far as the topic well like all other things such concepts vary region to region so we cannot give one set definition.

You are a media person ........... I have an idea and need your help to promote it, please see if you can help.

I wish separate tracks to be constructed for ambulances on our roads. Those tracks should never be blocked no matter what. Separate tracks mean no other traffic should be allowed on those tracks, no blockade of those tracks at any cost, strict rules to keep obstructions away from those tracks.

And meanwhile if the metro bus tracks could be shared and opened for free movement of ambulances. Please .............. see if you can promote this.

The real problem arises from them not moving much

You are blaming people for being fat ......... as if it is some incompetence and they have full control over it. To some extent ..... they can start training ........ but that training part needs time, dedication and patience. A lot goes into it and not everyone is that blessed to enjoy that much free time.

Its not that easy my friend, walking and moving with a 5 kg bag on your shoulder and then moving with a 40 kg bag on your shoulder is not the same thing.
 
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. as if it is some incompetence and they have full control over it.
Yeah it kind of is look at everyday habits of most fat people
Its not that easy my friend, walking and moving with a 5 kg bag on your shoulder and then moving with a 40 kg bag on your shoulder is not the same thing.
I am not talking about weight exercise but cardio
dedication
This is the hard part the other two are at best excuses
Some habits are easy to change for example walk more drive less for short distance tasks
 
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Yeah it kind of is look at everyday habits of most fat people

I am not talking about weight exercise but cardio

This is the hard part the other two are at best excuses
Some habits are easy to change for example walk more drive less for short distance tasks

Be it cardio ...... still an overweight person would be walking and moving with his own body weight (the difference between a normal weight person and and overweight person doing the same routine), the body weight will take its toll. And it takes a lot of time, patience and dedication before the results of training are visible .......... that's why I said it is not that easy ...

You cannot blame people for that ...... when they are young they don't care and when they start caring its too late and it takes a lot of time to reverse ..........

You are talking about people with a problem ........ I have met perfectly slim young boys full of energy but short of patience .... they don't want to wait and wish they would have a nicely built physique in no time ..... and sometimes they waste their money on shortcuts ..... instead of training hard naturally on their own strength.
 
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The sad thing is even if you geniuinely love someone and are attracted towards them. Our society and especially parents look down upon it. Even islam understands that man does not have any control over his heart.

Parents nowafays want a perfect rishta with a bedazzled resume( yes they even ask for resumes nowadays), 6 figure salary, atleast a BMW etc etc

All of the material things without making room for any emotions or feelings.
 
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