everybody plays a role in the Asean club. I just hate the arrogance if someone comes and says "I´m the boss!". yoshi supports such idea. there is no boss in Asean. if someone has any doubt, pls read the treaty.
I suppose i would liken it to a cake symbolism.
If i cut a piece of chocolate cheese cake , and i eat it, i'll love it. If you cut a piece of cherry cheese cake and it it, you'll probably like it too. So when we compare our cakes, i'll say, "i really like chocolate cheese cake, Viet my friend." And you'll say to me, "Oh that's nice, but I particularly enjoyed my cherry cheese cake, Nihonjin buddy ol pal!"
So you see preference is based on and influenced upon by exposure. Yes? The Japanese businesses and business folks who invest soley in Vietnam will have positive bias for Vietnam and Vietnamese people, for sure. The Japanese businesses and business folk (like yoshi-sama) who invest in an operate in Indonesia will naturally have preference for Indonesia and Indonesian people. So don't take it as insulting that Yoshi has positive appraisal for Indonesia; its just that he has been exposed to Indonesia and the high capabilities of Indonesia. He also happened to mention that his relative stayed in Indonesia so there's some kind of history relation there.
I do agree with you that ASEAN members are equal and have a role individually contribute to peaceful coexistence, peaceful trade, peaceful resolution of intraregional divisive issues. With that said, there's so much possibilities in ASEAN. We just have to consider the positive contributions and contributory potential of each member. Vietnam has high potential, indeed, and so does Indonesia.
Good ! I see Vietnam and Indonesia as brother civilizations, brother nations. Sometimes they disagree, but for the most part, politically and geopolitically, you both are more similar than you are different. So let's focus on that positivist and constructionist vantage point.