.....Impossible, that's not like me bro. If i do something like that, my GF will know that I'm faking. So, it won't feel natural.
I have my own way of doings things. All needed is to make her happy. If i can make her happy without kneeling and crying...so be it. It is not essential to go with the standard pattern.
I get you, bro. We are not religious. But i can't see some things as modernity. Like i won't celebrate Christmas but New Year. If we are going to make some thing more modern, it should be evolved from my culture. I won't accept something from foreign culture and saying as this is western, it is modern so we should adapt.....Nope, mate. I will stick with my culture.
Dude, there is difference between what is called culture and the concept of tradition, I am not talking about leaving culture for the modernity, I am talking about disposal of the outdated traditions, and flexing into the evolved era.
A man incapable (or having problem) of expressing his feelings is neither considered culture, nor it will work any more in nowadays revolved societies. To seal your relationship, you need to improve in feeling expression department, or else you should be ready to face the consequences.
And for the "she knows I am faking" "do not feels natural" "I have my own ways", dude, you just added to my concerns, you need to know more about how the female brains work, she needs you faking, she needs you to act in the way she likes not in the ways you are used to.
I am not talking about copying exactly what people do in the west, I am not talking about leaving our own culture, but all I wanna mention is that, seeing you having problem with that kinda self expression and to make it a big deal is the sign of a problem, a really big problem, that would make you regret not focusing on, in the future of your relation.
I strongly recommend you guys reading these books:
Brain Sex by Anne Moir and David Jessel,
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
The female brain by Louann Brizendine
So you are saying that for ex. In US the divorce rate is lower , and the morality is better and family bonds are stronger ? Bro in one study , sherry height estimated that 70 percent of married women cheat in US ..... lol
ِDude, just leave USA the bankrupted, spoiled, rotten, crumbling nation,
alone, we are talking about our society, here.