We are already most hated country of heavily nuclear armed country with heavy presence of extremists, so we might just as well live with it. Question is can BD afford a belligerent India?
Many Hujis in Bangladesh were captured with Indian help. Especially with the current Awami League. Under no circumstances could law enforcement in Bangladesh could have done that all by themselves. The police couldn't even manage a simple traffic routine (fact).
Oh, and about Bangladesh's politicians:
As a matter of fact, most of them are all criminals. They'll pretty much sleep with any demon. There was news of a hotel business man in Rajshahi. He was brutally murdered over ransom. Even after it was paid, he was still murdered. Sliced and diced into pieces. Now, the interesting part is that the culprits have blessings from the country's politicians. This makes them immune to any justice. There are many examples like this.
The ruling Awami League has blessings from India.
Recently Airtel evaded taxes before buying 70% of Warid telecom. Why is this? Is it fair to the competitors like Grameen Phone, Robi and Banglalink?
It is fairly obvious that whoever is involved in the Airtel business in BD is related to the ruling party.
I really wish my country's military was more organized, and tackle more against terrorists, including the ones posing a threat to India. And tackle espionage. To be honest, most of the officers in the Bangladesh military are nothing more than "sitting officers" for the most part. They don't actually do anything. The only ones active are the army engineers.
Can Bangladesh afford a belligerent India is not the question. The question is: can Bangladesh maintain its sovereignty from India?
Oh and by the way, many Indians work in Bangladesh in very high positions. I doubt if it is the same for Bangladeshis living in India.
As a matter of fact, on a global scale, more Hindus work under Muslims than Muslims work under Hindus - FACT.