the reason why military wants to use"cruise missiles" and "navy nukes" is they think either we press buttons in the command centre and see who wins, or the other option is nuclear war where everyone dies.
Does not work that ways, sorry. Unfortunately for you, your Military and your Civil leadership are also those who understand the consequences of going down that road.
Why do you think that PAF's response was very calibrated, this after IAF violated not only the Pakistani side of Kashmir but also Pakistan proper? And this, the use of AF to violate Pakistani airspace, after Pakistan had warned that it is a 'Nuclear Power'?
What has happened, and here I would urge you to understand this very clearly, is that the so called Pakistani Nuclear Bluff was called, and Pakistan failed to live up to its own threats.
While one can counter with the countless Indian threats which have not materialized over the years, but this time, there was absolutely no two opinion over what course would be chosen.
One can argue over the fact that the PAF was quick to mount a counter but one must also consider the following:
1. A heightened state of alert was being maintained by PAF with regular CAPs and BARCAPs as can be seen on this forum itself, right in the aftermath of the bombing in Pulwama.
2. In spite of the heightened state, IAF managed to ingress and not a single aircraft was intercepted. One can claim that the aircrafts 'ran' after PAF came on scene and you and I can argue about it forever, but neither is that true, nor is it true that PAF was in vicinity. Had it been in vicinity, one odd aircraft would and should have been shot down as Pakistani airspace was clearly violated and PAF was clearly on heightened state of alert.
3. This, the perception that Pakistan allowed India to get away with a strike in its territory, after the US raid in Abbottabad, will work to undermine the confidence of the people in the State and the ability of Nuclear Weapons to be of any deterrence value - they simply are not.
the reason for this is they dont want to see the face of war. they doent want battles on the street and above their homes.
I think that you are being slightly harsh here as war is something that no sane person wants. And a soldier is one person who prays and wishes for peace, as he/she knows the cost of war will be first and foremost borne by him/her.
this attitude lost nato and us their wars
thats a loser ideology
to conquer a country you need a country left after you conquer it with people
That is an old concept. To conquer a country today, you need to make it dependent on yourself. Why do you think that China commands so much influence? Has China invaded any country? How has China, for a simple example, gained so much weightage in Pakistan itself?
One can very well argue that China holds more sway in Pakistan than any politician of Pakistan alone.
thats why when i meet army officers i call them cowards
in war you hit soldiers, not civilians with nukes and missiles
Neither. In war, you hit the economy of the nation, it's capacity to wage war/resist your offensives and destroy its economic (foremost) and then political will, to resist your position. If war was won over number of killed, Soviet Union surely lost the World War 2 to Germany.
like india hits civilians in kashmir on the streets in their homes
Factually incorrect. Security forces only use the provisions of law, as valid under the Ranbir Penal Code (a law applicable exlusively for J&K as decided by people of J&K since before joining the Union of India) and ancillarily under the Indian Penal Code.
Personally, I have never had an experience where a Kashmiri had attempted to pelt stones at me. Instead, they had offered to pelt stones at the Hurriyet Leadership if I paid them (the stone pelting industry) and the
numbardar asking for help in checking the kids pelting stones on each others house at night as they are bored. It would have been quite comical if not for the consequences of such action.
thats why i smile when indian military are blown up in kashmir
Well, that is you, but I do not smile when Pakistani Security Forces sustain casualties in Baluchistan and elsewhere in NWFP et al. Reason is simple - there is someone in uniform who is dying for his/her country, which takes courage.
Cheers.