There are many Muslims in India that don't like BJP and RSS, that doesn't mean they hate India. In fact they love India as much as any Indian do.
There are many Muslims of India that are happy that they didn't migrated to Pakistan at the time of Partition. Pakistan doesn't enjoy much popularity with Indian Muslims.
Most Pakistanis don't understand the concept of India . I wouldn't blame them ..the porki indian media makes a mountain of a molehill of 1 adverse incident, a 1 in a million exception and when this happens ,it is pretty common for foreigners to judge based on 1 incident that there is bigotry around ....
Tell me ,in your respective state in India , when have you last experienced or witnessed any kind of open bigotry by one religious community towards the other ...?in my Tamil nadu, I don't think in ever have in my close to 3 decades of life
To me rss sanghi junk and radical Islamic junk are one and the same ...they dont play any role in the future of India ,which is fast becoming a meritocracy ...if you are good ,if you are well educated, if you have the drive in life ,then you will succeed tremendously in India .period . Millions and millions of Muslims in India proudly serve their country in the highest possible manner ,be it medicine, civil Services,technology ,the arts and entrepreneurship .
How will you explain the special relationships of Muslims in India to a foreigner....say for example in Tamil nadu when the state government bears the entire cost of providing food for the Muslims during Ramadan and Id.(For the entire period of fast )..or how will you explain the fraternity between Muslims and Hindus during id or Ramadan in Karnataka, especially Bangalore, when the entirety of Muslims dominated areas in Bangalore become one large celebratory food festival ....or when Muslim children don their Krishna or Shiva costume during fancy dress contests or play the part in a hindu drama ...i still remember my super senior in school, a chap called nazeer, who played the role of Rama in an enaction of the ramayana ...his mesmerizing performance paved the way for almost 2000 students to get a bettwr insight into hindu.mythology .how.about the time during the chennai floods ,when all the gurudwarss and mosques opened their doors along with the temples to provide residence ,shwlter and clothing to hindus without a blink . The Tamil nadu tauheed jamaat, an orthodox Muslim organisation, is the largest organizational blood donor in India . of everyday incidents like this bring all Indians together ,Muslim, hindu ,Christian,jew, Buddhist ..irrespective.of their religious affiliation.
Having said this, I would like to say that yes, there is obviouslg a little friction in everyday society between different religions ..mostly due to lack of knowledge about other cultur.fl.but such incidents are far too less in number to drown the positivity surrounding the Indian Muslims in India
At the end of the day ,An Indian Muslim will give his life to protect an Indian hindu and an Indian hindu will give his life to protect an Indian Muslim...the same can be said for people from any other religion