Hitting Women in Islam ???? Sheikh Nauman Ali Khan ANSWERS

[RAMPAGE]

My views doesn't matter when ALLAH and his RASOOL SAW have ordered clearly. The hitting which is allowed is not beating as such. Let say it's a slight touch of hand. In Islam if your women is doing something wrong than as first step you talk to her if she doesn't listen you separate your bed from her and in Islam that is actually the biggest punishment if she still doesn't listen bring her family elders and ask them to talk to her. If she still doesn't listen and you know for sure now that she is cheating on you in that case you are allowed to slightly hit and best is to even avoid that and just divorce her. Well if you still resort to that beating you are not allowed to hit on face or not hit hard that it leaves mark nor you are allowed to hit on any sensitive part in short their are so many conditions which basically tells you not raise hand because it's of no use. Because if a wife doesn't realizes her mistake even when you separate bed from her nothing else would change her mind.

Are you married?

 

[Zarvan]

Are you married?

No not yet

 

[The Sandman]

My views doesn't matter when ALLAH and his RASOOL SAW have ordered clearly. The hitting which is allowed is not beating as such. Let say it's a slight touch of hand. In Islam if your women is doing something wrong than as first step you talk to her if she doesn't listen you separate your bed from her and in Islam that is actually the biggest punishment if she still doesn't listen bring her family elders and ask them to talk to her. If she still doesn't listen and you know for sure now that she is cheating on you in that case you are allowed to slightly hit and best is to even avoid that and just divorce her. Well if you still resort to that beating you are not allowed to hit on face or not hit hard that it leaves mark nor you are allowed to hit on any sensitive part in short their are so many conditions which basically tells you not raise hand because it's of no use. Because if a wife doesn't realizes her mistake even when you separate bed from her nothing else would change her mind.

In Islam only a light tap is allowed with a misvak and that too not on face though our Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) even discouraged that
http://www.islamicfinder.org/articles/article.php?id=307

 

[Genghis khan1]

Is this supposed to be witty?

Idk my friend, but word of wisdom learned over the millenniums.


1. A spaniel, a wife, and a walnut tree, The more you beat 'em the better they be.
French Proverb

2. A woman, a dog, and a walnut tree, the more you beat them the better they be.
German Proverb

 

[Pakistani E]

I find it kind of funny how the radicals who preach beatings of women in the name of following Islamic teachings fail to follow the example of the prophet Syedna Hazrat Muhammad (saw), these very same radicals will keep their beards at the proscribed length, would lift up their trouser cuffs above their ankles, in all manner of things they will attempt to follow the Sunnah, yet try and explain to them Sunnah regarding beating of women they will recoil and curse you for not following the Holy Qur'an forgetting that the life of the prophet (saw) is a reflection of the teachings of the Holy Qur'an and the prophet (saw) never ever in any circumstances laid a hand on any of his wives.

 

[Joe Shearer]

Idk my friend, but word of wisdom learned over the millenniums.


1. A spaniel, a wife, and a walnut tree, The more you beat 'em the better they be.
French Proverb

2. A woman, a dog, and a walnut tree, the more you beat them the better they be.
German Proverb

OK, I got it. Now you know why you're getting a negative rating.

 

[Luffy 500]

@Zarvan No matter what kind of explanation you give , the intellectually colonized liberal modernist will cry foul. Their problem is with the Quran and sunnah itself because it does not conform to their worldview. Over past 1400 years such islamic principle regarding gender roles , hadd punishments , inheritance , finance and interest , family values etc etc were never questioned. The advent of colonialism and post-colonial states left a small but materially powerful intellectually colonized liberal elite and a colonial education system that made muslims totally ignorant about their religion. Thus the western dominated media resorts to maligning Islamic scholars , speakers , preachers , thinkers and activists as terrorist , extremist , backward etc etc. Their attempt is to discredit people with islamic knowledge so that the ignorant muslim masses can be turned into loyal slaves of the liberal secular west.

Also muslim speakers , activists and islamic scholars need to be eloquent and articulative in their speeches. There is a time , place and method of saying everything specially when there is an anti-islamic media vying to malign them any way they can .This eloquence is necessary to teach the ignorant muslim masses who otherwise may easily get duped by the liberal modernist in their ranks. The current saga of CII's women's protection bill in PAK is a classic example of the intolerant bigotry of secular liberalism.
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Hitting one’s wife?

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There is nothing in the Qur’aan that suggests that a man is allowed to bite his wife.

1 – The Qur’aan enjoins good treatment of one's wife: she is to be honoured and treated kindly, even when one no longer feels love in one's heart towards her. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“and live with them honourably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allaah brings through it a great deal of good”

[al-Nisa’ 4:19]

2 – The Qur’aan explains that women have rights over their husbands, just as their husbands have rights over them. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allaah is All-Mighty, All-Wise”

[al-Baqarah 2:228]

This verse indicates that the man has additional rights, commensurate with his role as protector and maintainer and his responsibility of spending (on his wife) etc.

3 – The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) enjoined kind treatment and honouring of one’s wife, and he described the best of people as those who are best to their wives. He said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3895; Ibn Maajah, 1977; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

4 – The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke beautiful word concerning kind treatment of one’s wife, stating that when the husband feeds his wife and puts a morsel of food in her mouth, he earns the reward of doing an act of charity. He said, “You never spend anything but you will be rewarded for it, even the morsel of food that you lift to your wife’s mouth.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6352; Muslim, 1628.

4 – And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Fear Allaah with regard to women, for you have taken them as a trust from Allaah and intimacy with them has become permissible to you by the words of Allaah. Your right over them is that they should not allow anyone to sit on your furniture whom you dislike; if they do that then hit them but not in a harsh manner. And their right over you is that you should provide for them and clothe them on a reasonable basis.” Narrated by Muslim, 1218.

What is meant by “they should not allow anyone to sit on your furniture whom you dislike” is that they should not allow anyone whom you dislike to enter your houses, whether the person disliked is a man or a woman, or any of the woman’s mahrams [close relatives to whom marriage is forbidden]. The prohibition includes all of them. From the words of al-Nawawi.

The hadeeth may be understood as meaning that a man has the right to hit his wife, in a manner that is not harsh and does not cause injury if if there is a reason for that, such as her going against his wishes or disobeying him.

This is like the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“As to those women on whose part you see ill‑conduct, admonish them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allaah is Ever Most High, Most Great”

[al-Nisa’ 4:34]

If a woman rebels against her husband and disobeys his commands, then he should follow this method of admonishing her, forsaking her in bed and hitting her. Hitting is subject to the condition that it should not be harsh or cause injury. Al-Hasan al-Basri said: this means that it should not cause pain.

‘Ata’ said: I said to Ibn ‘Abbaas, what is the kind of hitting that is not harsh? He said, Hitting with a siwaak and the like. [A siwaak is a small stick or twig used for cleaning the teeth - Translator]

The purpose behind this is not to hurt or humiliate the woman, rather it is intended to make her realize that she has transgressed against her husband’s rights, and that her husband has the right to set her straight and discipline her.

And Allaah knows best.

 

[Genghis khan1]

OK, I got it. Now you know why you're getting a negative rating.

Let me check my bank account....

......Nope didn't lose even a cent....

 

[Joe Shearer]

Let me check my bank account....

......Nope didn't lose even a cent....

Oh, you lucky guy. And such a hero, who thinks hitting women is cool.

 

[Samlee]

In Islam only a light tap is allowed with a misvak and that too not on face though our Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) even discouraged that
http://www.islamicfinder.org/articles/article.php?id=307

Even The Permission For That Light Tap Is Permitted As A Last Resort For Disobedient or Misbehaving Wife.Problem With Men In Society Is That They Resort To Violent Beating (Not Just Light Tap) From The Get Go

 

[ghazi52]

 

[Hakikat ve Hikmet]

No not yet

"I have commanded over armies, but wasn't able to do so over a woman" - Mustafa Kemal Pasha

Well then, Kardeshim, you've got a lot to learn...

 

[smali183]

Islam aik complete zabita hayat hai... islam may achay aur buray har waqat aur halaat ka baray may ALLAH (SWT) ka ahkammat aur Rasol e akram (PBUH) ka sunnuah Han..wife ko marna ya buray halaat ka waqat hai . q k dunya may saray shadi shuda juroon ka halaat khushguaar nahi haotay hain..aur ya us joray ka lia hai jab hallat bivi ki waja sa kharab ho to agar marna bi to islam na jistra bataya hai tu ustra tarah us say agrar tajawaz ki to pir Ahkammat ki khilaf warzi hai. istarh islam na iss hukam may be aurat ko mahfooz banaya hai...QK is say hat k jis nay kia us nay islam ko follow nahi kia..q k halaat jb kharab hu to admi ko ghusa ata hai aour ghusay may insaan ko qabo rakna mushikil hujata hai to agra koi islam follow karay ga to us k haat say nuqsaan nahi hoga.

 

[CriticalThinker02]

If he wanted to kill people for blasphemy then there would be no Ta'if valley.

My Murshad e Paak (SA) was not vain and nor was he vengeful. He was the most selfless human to have ever walked this earth.

This comment deserves at-least one positive vote.

@Horus @WAJsal @Khafee @Oscar

 

[RAMPAGE]

This comment deserves at-least one positive vote.

@Horus @WAJsal @Khafee @Oscar

Thank you for saying that but your kind words are all the appreciation I need.