wayla is an attitude not a thinking....its an action that makes you do something...while a thinking doesnt go that far....Wrong intentions ALLAH b maaf kerta hai as long as you dont go wayla on them! Hope you understand better now!
If someone is practicing wayla pann he is showing his attitude. If you feel someone is wayla you're showing your thinking. You ask why is he wayla he may deny and give a valid reason. But you've already passed a judgement on your thinking.
Aren't you going wayla on your thinking?