..Religion may not be everything but it def is not worth dropping....I mean I am here all alone, no one knows me, I can remove my scarf and blend in...Apart from my nose and slight dark skin colour and diet, I can blend in without any care on the planet and then put the scarf back on again when I go back to Pakistan.....But I like being appreciated for what I am doing....When you do nothing wrong you shouldnt be afraid...Alhamdulillah I have never experienced any form of difference just coz I wear a scarf and dont eat meat....
Likewise in Pakistan if a gora comes in without headscarf, heck even if your cousin from abroad comes in without headscarf, there is more tolerance for women to be in jeans and without headscarf in Pakistan....Heck the fashion styles in Pakistan are far advanced than jeans! Half the stuff they wear, my Italian colleagues have had their mouths hanging with looking at stuff I showed em!
There are different levels of tolerance....The only prob I see with PAKISTANI societies is that they are too wayli! They need a job instead of sitting around and snooping around like a spy and taking notice of every fly on the planet!