Well, as I said, I only comment on fact and fractions. I have no interest on talking about what I think or what you think about Swedish or Turkish government
It's up to Turkish government to decide whether or not they will vote for or against Sweden and Finland joining. As I commented. it would be bad for Turkey to vote no, that does not mean they will vote yes. And neither me or you have any say within Turkish government, so what we think is a moot point.
As I said, i only laying out what is at play and what's the alternative.
Alternative is US and EU will not abandon Sweden and Finland in term of security, given if both country drop their neutrality and want to be part of Western Sphere of influence. So if Turkey vetoed. That would mean nothing to that because the US and EU would most likely uses other means to provide security to them.
That may or may not take Turkey out of the equation, and without Russia to lean on, there are no alternative to NATO at the moment, which mean Turkey would be in a bad position if US/EU migrate from NATO in order to protect Sweden and Finland.
And it is a known fact that the West is most likely choose Sweden and Finland over Turkey in defence matter.
I am not saying Turkey should be abandoned, or that we should isolate them, I think talks is important to have them on board, and I don't see how Turkey would actually veto it because there are a lot more to lose to Turkey than they would have gain. Which mean the old stick and carrot tricks would probably the way to go.
As for what the West should dangle in front of Turkey to make it? That's remain to be seen.