dil ki bat keh di
in my 10+2 ( for non-indians this is at age 18 ) i felt all that institutionalized manic urgency about exam-vexams and the artificially-induced compulsoryness about those tuition classes and the guide books ( i don't know what they are called now but there are even paid websites for this ) are all burdens and efforts that are simply unnecessary for my intellectual growth, and suffocating and unnecessary for the personal efforts and paths that i will put in the years to come.
that's the pathectic irony,first go to high school for a 5 or so hours then straight to tution,and this vicious chakarveo does not just stop------ after going through all those torturous 8 or 9 hours one is expected to then memorise all those lectures in another 4 or so hours----saans kb ly student---bachay ki jaan lo gy kea --its downright preposterous---if one have to attend the tuition center then what is the point in going to high school/college--------stop this mental molestation of students-----
it takes years to show parents the right path and even more fatiguing are the supposedly successful older relatives ( successful meaning in some job, especially public sector ) who in actuality are nothing but just because they have children and are older in age than you, they declare pompously that "the system is like that so we must adjust to the system so do mehnat this time and pass the exam"...
well in this respect i would like to differ a bit------most of the parents just don't want their children to suffer the 2nd class citizen dilema---our subcontinental society's lousy standards force them to do so---if you are not a person of power,you should better die----that;s the subliminal idea working behind our taleemi nizam
our subcontinental system is so capitalist that not only are the so-called friends in the same socio-economic desperate rat race that you are in too and so can't and won't help you ( i am not judging your friend here but just giving the general scenario )
never,i remember a guy when i was in school,he just behaved like the character of the movie three idiots, chatur Ramalingam,even now try to act or think like Rancho Shamaldas,and you;ll get owned by every freaking stupid lowlife scumbag
the parents do this because they actually have no trust in their own judgement, no faith in their own intelligence, no application of common sense..
i would rather blame the fear among parents,like Imran Khan so oftenly says khoof ka but tora
. such parents would rather throw their children onto the street than arrange for them the resources for pursuit of projects and plans that their children so keenly desire... so most subcontinental parents are not a support system when needed by a sufferer
in many cases that's the most common trick in making their kids more obedient-----fear factor at its best
you see, the parents are the actual failures... the reason they suffocate their children into accepting the done-to-death school/college degree system and then the inevitable jobs ( wage slavery ) is because the parents themselves in their own previous 20 to 50 years of "career life" neither put life and years at risk to bring in a harmonious socialist welfare system
second that
where most things are free or subsidized or low costing, or better yet, removed money system entirely thus removing the entire artificial rat race at the simplest level... the parents didn't risk their life and years for progressive political change and so are the real failures but instead of admitting this to their children and perhaps now participating in political change at this later state in life what they do is force their children into treading the stagnant path of the surrounding society, the stagnant path they the parents themselves lived for decades, just so that they don't have to monetarily pay for whatever their children desire, whether a dress or whether some machinery for a project or whether a convalescing stay at a hill station.
we can try to bring a liberal socialist system,but aint going to happen at least in our lives,i blame the greedy , narcissist and capitalistic approach-- i think their should be introduced some sort of a pre-marital family mentoring course,key objects of which, should revolve around how to deal with your woman and kids
these hyenas are of course simply parasites and must be removed, how many ever millions they are... this is need for a better india and a better world.
Reham jamahir babu reham--india highly qualiiiiiiiiified logo sy khalii ho jay ga
you know, there is no real reason for anyone to be in job ( wage-slavery )... real work is entirely different from wage-slavery, after all socialism declares that "one who produces, can consume" and "from each according to ability, to each according to need".
couldn't say better than this--------
there shouldn't be any competition at all, at least not for survival and getting one's talents recognized and supported.
nailed it,a healthy competition means progress----but in doing so we must ponder over the fact that we are no animals or any other species of Mother Nature,survival of the fittest should and does not apply on us--but if we are to go after this theory,then take a start with killing special kids, senior citizens--------
You know what causes this? because they never faced hardships, that's why. These imbeciles are the same breed of people, who spends 5 hours of each day playing Xbox or PS4, and gets depressed if their driver shows up late for their weekend plans for 'socializing'.
They never earned this lifestyle they are enjoying, and takes everything for granted. A small crack in their castle of glass drives them insane
i agree with that part of your post,even i feel that i could have done way better without the Paternal financial support but only at a certain stage of my life,lets say after high school,one's potential goes in full after burner-- when he/she is confronted with dismal and hard times------- in sir MastanKhan style one can only deliver at his full potential when something lights a fire under his/her feets
Then you don't understand the survival of fittest theory yet.
D, we are no animals--------
Nai Jamahir.
You're an idealist.
no,a realist and a pragmatic person instead,we are so indulged in this corrupt system,that it made us defend those folks who are responsible for the miseries of mankind ,so that we can get a branded car, a villa,make our kids doctors enginsssss lawyers----------- and be in a way better position than the saath valay sharma g
