Declining marriage rate affects everyone in US.

[nang2]

Everybody is different, but at the lower level of society one income simply isn't enough.

Enough is a subjective word. In US, without a flushing toilet is considered as being not enough. In some developing country, a latrine with a roof is an improvement.

 

[CatSultan]

Not good news. When marriage dies moral decay sets in. Without stable families society will not be stable either.
Idiots have taken liberalism to extreme ends.

liberalism always leads to moral degredation. It happens slowly. its a slipper slope

 

[HalfMoon]

US people are fcuking over sex, and just dont get married. Even if they get married they cheat and got divorce. Almost everyone marry non virgin.

BTW whose wife here is virgin?

Only Muslims get to marry virgin girls as Muslim girls are pious unlike other girls.

 

[prashantazazel]

Plenty of conservatives want others to have sad, monogamous lives, just so that there would be more babies.

This is not required to have a young demographic.
You have to incentivise having children for young couples, married or not.
Issues here:
1. Women don't want to be a single mother, so guys should be on the hook for child support. But not for maternal/ex wife support.
2. The state should provide free, high quality childcare for working people. I think this was done in eastern Germany.
3. Or, the state could take over the expenses of children, if parents are deemed incapable.
4. Children from single homes should be aggressively monitored to avoid influence of drugs and crime. You can introduce the death penalty for any criminal involved in introducing children to crime.
5. Violent children should be segregated from regular ones at childcare institutions.

 

[Shazzad123]

Sad but true!!
And also there are so many women DESPERATE to find suitable men. Women come out on top after marriage and I didn't mean that in some cheesy way Financially, it is often a big loss for men and so they are reluctant to get married. Somehow the system is rigged against men.

Feminism is turning women to mercenary He-Men like creatures in America and possibly in Western Europe too.

PS. I know a white dude in his 70s; poor but healthy. He went to a 4 July party on Monday and yesterday he told me that there were FIVE women interested in him! They are not 'young' but much younger then him. I told him to pick one and live his life!

70% of America is white

There is 270 million white Americans

It shouldn't be hard at all to find an average white person.

Just the other day I saw a black guy with a half overweight white female. They were both at Wal-Mart and causing issues at the cash register for the cashier there. Both were from the low rungs of society like they lived in a trailer.

A lot of these white guys complaining are just antisocial people. If 3rd world guys who can't speak English can do it then a white guy shouldn't be complaining. However a lot of white americans I've seen suffer from a semi psychotic nature. The type of nature you would find in school shooters. I don't see this in black guys from my experience.

 

[Shazzad123]

The majority people in the west generally live together and marry afterwards.
In the UK more children were born out of marriage then in marriage when I checked the figures a while back.

In the US, there is a strong anti-American woman feeling among the men. They feel that they will marry, work hard to develop a business, then their wife will divorce them and take half of what the've earned. To that add the decline of the American women; overweight, unfeminine and lacking in housewife skills. Hordes of US men are going abroad to Asia, Eastern Europe or south america to find a bride that is still feminine.

They will go abroad and describe the women as 'sweet and feminine' ie the way women are natuarally, not wanting to be 'as good as a man'.

Google 'mgtow'. 'Men Going Their Own Way'. A style for men of basically doing without women, and spending all their hard earned money on themselves.

Most women in the philippines and thailand aren't feminine. They're gold diggers and will take your money after divorce too

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

A whiteman ever told me, if he go business trip for 3 weeks, his wife sure go out find someone to FCUK.

Also now while cheating still generally disapproved by US society, it has acquire much positive connotation over the years such as "courage to find true love", "honest to ones true feeling"...etc

LOL! Hey A Chinese man told me if he go business trip for 3 weeks, his wife sure go out find some white guy to FCUK.

Actually it was 5 Chinese guys who told me this...wait it was 6.

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

1. Delusion is another reason. Lots of young people, especially young women, have taken to heart the new progressive messaging that says that it is somehow good and empowering not to settle down in one's prime years. That all the options marriage-wise available to them in their 20s and 30s will remain even later in life. It's a farce, not only do they become significantly less attractive as they'll age, fertility also drops off of a cliff for some women in their 30s and 40s. So these delays also bring down the birth rate too.

Yeah but this is probably the single biggest cause of the US wealth gap. Everybody screams about the wealth gap but they don't realize that a big part of it is the guy makes $200,000 AND the wife also makes $200,000. This is very very common but almost unheard of in the 1970's.

These power couples live really really comfortable lives as you can imagine. They pay cash for their kids college tuition and are the one's who are investing that money in businesses.

So when people scream about the widening gap between the "haves" and "have nots" I don't necessarily think that is something negative...it's actually positive.

 

[FairAndUnbiased]

Yeah but this is probably the single biggest cause of the US wealth gap. Everybody screams about the wealth gap but they don't realize that a big part of it is the guy makes $200,000 AND the wife also makes $200,000. This is very very common but almost unheard of in the 1970's.

These power couples live really really comfortable lives as you can imagine. They pay cash for their kids college tuition and are the one's who are investing that money in businesses.

So when people scream about the widening gap between the "haves" and "have nots" I don't necessarily think that is something negative...it's actually positive.

You believe income inequality is a desirable trait in a society??

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

You believe income inequality is a desirable trait in a society??

I do not think it is bad that two people with successful careers are getting married.

I guess if this was China they would rectify it by making it a crime for them to get married to keep the income curve better.

As if that was a desirable trait in a society?

 

[Goritoes]

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

A lot of these white guys complaining are just antisocial people. If 3rd world guys who can't speak English can do it then a white guy shouldn't be complaining. However a lot of white americans I've seen suffer from a semi psychotic nature. The type of nature you would find in school shooters. I don't see this in black guys from my experience.

Yeah but I've yet to meet a psycho white guy who would kill me for something as trivial as my sneakers...and I have met my share of kooks.

Go take a walk in some inner city neighborhoods and we'll see how long you'll last. You don't need to be a psycho to be a dangerous person. In fact many of them are harmless to others (as long as you don't get them mad) but lethal to themselves.

 

[Meengla]

70% of America is white

There is 270 million white Americans

It shouldn't be hard at all to find an average white person.

Just the other day I saw a black guy with a half overweight white female. They were both at Wal-Mart and causing issues at the cash register for the cashier there. Both were from the low rungs of society like they lived in a trailer.

A lot of these white guys complaining are just antisocial people. If 3rd world guys who can't speak English can do it then a white guy shouldn't be complaining. However a lot of white americans I've seen suffer from a semi psychotic nature. The type of nature you would find in school shooters. I don't see this in black guys from my experience.

Not to sound so like a snob but I wasn't referring to the kind of couple whom you saw at a Walmart. I am talking about often-decent-looking professional women--even white-- who are finding it hard to find a 'suitable' match because guys are more and more unwilling to 'commit' and part of the lack of commitment by guys are the financial costs in case of a split-up.

Related to this thread: Wife and I tried setting up a white dude friend who is 64 and is reasonably successful with a lady friend of ours who is about 57, just about a month ago. I would have posted pics but can't do that here to protect them. They had seen each other's pics through us and liked each other and were very keen to meet. The lady is on the heavy side but as he is but she definitely has a much more beautiful face. She is a very sweet friend though is living off 'Disability' even if generally functional. We all met in a restaurant. She tried hard but she was not good enough for him. Her unemployment status, her weight turned him off even though he's HORNY as hell being deprived of fun for apparently a long time. LOL!

He and many other like him have access to a large pool of American women especially over 40 but they are not good enough for some such white men. Well, it's a free country!

 

[Song Hong]

Not to sound so like a snob but I wasn't referring to the kind of couple whom you saw at a Walmart. I am talking about often-decent-looking professional women--even white-- who are finding it hard to find a 'suitable' match because guys are more and more unwilling to 'commit' and part of the lack of commitment by guys are the financial costs in case of a split-up.

Related to this thread: Wife and I tried setting up a white dude friend who is 64 and is reasonably successful with a lady friend of ours who is about 57, just about a month ago. I would have posted pics but can't do that here to protect them. They had seen each other's pics through us and liked each other and were very keen to meet. The lady is on the heavy side but as he is but she definitely has a much more beautiful face. She is a very sweet friend though is living off 'Disability' even if generally functional. We all met in a restaurant. She tried hard but she was not good enough for him. Her unemployment status, her weight turned him off even though he's HORNY as hell being deprived of fun for apparently a long time. LOL!

He and many other like him have access to a large pool of American women especially over 40 but they are not good enough for some such white men. Well, it's a free country!

Many of the white man bachelor has access to infinite number of women and it would be stupid to settle down for one used axx, carrying a heavy risk of penalties if they divorce.

Many of these old white man are getting laid by teenagers.

White people consume too much meat. After 20s, their body become very smelly. Also white woman age fast. The longtime couple may find one another not attractive after a while.

 

[Shazzad123]

Not to sound so like a snob but I wasn't referring to the kind of couple whom you saw at a Walmart. I am talking about often-decent-looking professional women--even white-- who are finding it hard to find a 'suitable' match because guys are more and more unwilling to 'commit' and part of the lack of commitment by guys are the financial costs in case of a split-up.

Related to this thread: Wife and I tried setting up a white dude friend who is 64 and is reasonably successful with a lady friend of ours who is about 57, just about a month ago. I would have posted pics but can't do that here to protect them. They had seen each other's pics through us and liked each other and were very keen to meet. The lady is on the heavy side but as he is but she definitely has a much more beautiful face. She is a very sweet friend though is living off 'Disability' even if generally functional. We all met in a restaurant. She tried hard but she was not good enough for him. Her unemployment status, her weight turned him off even though he's HORNY as hell being deprived of fun for apparently a long time. LOL!

He and many other like him have access to a large pool of American women especially over 40 but they are not good enough for some such white men. Well, it's a free country!

Well, most of the white men you're talking about are spending $1000 in the philippines and thailand. If white guys are willing to go hang out with some Filipino girl in it for a green card. Then they would be interested in what is in their backyard for free first.