Dealing with loss

[halupridol]

brother,i am sorry for your terrible loss,,,i know the pain of loosing some one so close,,changes ones perspective,,the whole world becomes bitter.
there is nothing for me to say which will give you solace,,
try to be strong for your family,dont let them see you in pain,keep yourself busy n most importantly dont regret the past..
GODBLESS

 

[MastanKhan]

Property not an issue.I am eldest of 2 brothers.my brother is 23.And yes my aunts are supporting my mother very well thankfully,they have stayed over.All my grandparents on both sides save my grandma on father's side are dead,and she is equally miserable right now.My mother has parental land holdings,plus fathers pension and mediclaim and savings so finance is not currently a huge issue.Me and my brother will be independent in that regard in 2-3 years.Its mainly emotional side.Thank you anyway.

Hi,

So if you are the older brother then heed this advice I gave to a dear friend and he made fun of me at that time---a day came when his younger brothers called him a dog in front of my face--- broke my heart.

I told him---these are your younger brothers---treat them as your brothers---you are not their father---don't act like their father----

Give your brother his due share---and don't try to be his father----you are not his father and you won't be his father.

Leave the fatherhood to be cherished by your children.

Older brothers at times sacrifice the welfare of their children over those of their younger siblings---.

Now for your mother----it is time that you become a friend of hers. She has a long life ahead of her & you got many a sacrifices to make. Good luck and never hesitate to talk to me. I have been there & it was brutal.

 

[GURU DUTT]

God bless you and give you strenth brother its a great loss indeed no ammount of words for condoulence are enof still try toachive what your dad always wanted from you and have strenth he will always be with you

 

[Skull and Bones]

Time will heal everything @AUSTERLITZ brother. I lost my father when i was 24.

Stay with your mother all the time, as reality will be very harsh to cope up with at this moment. Time will heal every thing.

 

[RazPaK]

@AUSTERLITZ, are you okay bro?

I am here for you.

You can speak about anything with me.

@AUSTERLITZ

You tell me now. What is the most fond memory you have of your father?


Please share with me. What is the best memory you have ever had with your father?

 

[hiphop]

Sorry to hear that
Just be strong at this time
I can feel your pain i lost my father when i was 14 years old

 

[third eye]

My father died yesterday night in a sudden heart attack.Just feeling extremely sad and painful right now,my mother and brother are trying to cope.My mother is especially painful to watch..any suggestions on activity to make me or them feel better?I'm 25.Thank you.

I too lost my parents at a about the same age. Its a crushing blow.

Any amount of suggestions will not help, its a huge personal loss you & the family have to bear & cope with alone.

Focus on short term things , do not look into the future - makes you feel depressed.

Stay strong, make sure your mom eats & eats well. Watch for changes in BP or any aliment she may have. Dont let relatives & friends make her & the family feel worse.

Stay strong.

 

[RAMPAGE]

Very sorry for your loss. Still life goes on and time gradually heals us.

 

[RazPaK]

@AUSTERLITZ

My personal email id is Razzawaheed@gmail.com. I really don't want to share my email with anyone here, but please come and speak with me. Email me.

 

[RazPaK]

first of condolences to you and your family….. i will pray for your father… just give something out to the poor in his honor….. help feed some homeless in his honor..


acha chal teek ve…. hoon tere khair nahin puttar…. menu chat baad secular nal troll karna ve hoon spam da intazaar kar…

Chalo koi gaal ni. Email me your phone number right now. We can have a chat right now.

 

[qamar1990]

Chalo koi gaal ni. Email me your phone number right now. We can have a chat right now.

chall apna delete kar dey email adresss

 

[RazPaK]

chall apna delete kar dey email adresss

dude email me your cell number. or at least email me your email id. ??

@qamar1990 gandu I will post my own cell number here, but I don't want ugly Indians blowing me up. Give me your cell number and we can chit chat niggeh. I already talk to @Ghareeb_Da_Baal on the phone.

 

[qamar1990]

dude email me your cell number. or at least email me your email id. ??

@qamar1990 gandu I will post my own cell number here, but I don't want ugly Indians blowing me up. Give me your cell number and we can chit chat niggeh. I already talk to @Ghareeb_Da_Baal on the phone.

email address check kar ley

 

[RazPaK]

email address check kar ley

Nigga I gave you my number. Call me.

 

[third eye]

@AUSTERLITZ

My personal email id is Razzawaheed@gmail.com. I really don't want to share my email with anyone here, but please come and speak with me. Email me.

Appreciate this gesture.

@AUSTERLITZ : Do share a contact No for me to call you.