Cousin marriages (we need to talk about this)

[Krishnan]

Wow man. I'm sorry for your cousin. But your story proves my point that cousin marriages, regardless of the fact that most don't result in defective offspring, should still be avoided because the risk is still there compared to marrying someone outside your relatives.

 

[friendly_troll96]

it really weird to think of cousin marriages, once upon a time your young and playing in the park with your cousin, riding the swings and going on the slide, then 20 years down the line your both but naked in bed on top of each other.

 

[Musafir117]

Medically it's doesn't suit and out come from it sometime shocked one, Sharia Allow it now it's your choice.

 

[Butchcassidy]

Its like playing Russian roulette
Why take any chances
Diversify

 

[AZADPAKISTAN2009]

Sura Al Niasa, ayat #23

حُرِّمَتْ عَلَيْكُمْ أُمَّهَاتُكُمْ وَبَنَاتُكُمْ وَأَخَوَاتُكُمْ وَعَمَّاتُكُمْ وَخَالَاتُكُمْ وَبَنَاتُ الْأَخِ وَبَنَاتُ الْأُخْتِ وَأُمَّهَاتُكُمُ اللَّاتِي أَرْضَعْنَكُمْ وَأَخَوَاتُكُم مِّنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ وَأُمَّهَاتُ نِسَائِكُمْ وَرَبَائِبُكُمُ اللَّاتِي فِي
حُجُورِكُم مِّن نِّسَائِكُمُ اللَّاتِي دَخَلْتُم بِهِنَّ فَإِن لَّمْ تَكُونُوا دَخَلْتُم بِهِنَّ فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ وَحَلَائِلُ أَبْنَائِكُمُ الَّذِينَ مِنْ أَصْلَابِكُمْ وَأَن تَجْمَعُوا بَيْنَ الْأُخْتَيْنِ إِلَّا مَا قَدْ سَلَفَ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا
رَّحِيمًا (23)

Prohibited to you [for marriage] are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters , your father's sisters, your mother's sisters, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your [milk] mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your step-daughters under your guardianship [born] of your wives unto whom you have gone in. But if you have not gone in unto them, there is no sin upon you. And [also prohibited are] the wives of your sons who are from your [own] loins, and that you take [in marriage] two sisters simultaneously, except for what has already occurred. Indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful.



Since I am a Muslim , and I do not see any mention of "Cousins" therefore I am not going to create self made rules to satisfy society



I am a Muslim and I will follow my own faith , it is your own personal preference if you wish to marry your cousin or a women who you desire a bit distant in clan and society

Keeping my option open as for comments about birth defects even in western society they have birth defects even in none cousin marrige. ( Austism etc )


In USA for example a very None cousin society:
What do these stats tell you below , there are falws that are naturally occuring in nature
And as example we know in US not all marriges are cousin related but yet they have a rising figures on Austism (Mentally challenged kids)

Similarly rise in Cancer (In none cousin society), since none cousin marriges are so perfect why are the Genetic pool degrading that cancer is rising rapidly

So please gentleman I suggest you all folks relax on the cousin thing

I personally will keep my options open as a Muslim to what wome I feel attracted to and will not create self made none sense as some of the stuff on this thread

Marrige is 99% about attraction, within family circle (except for the relations defined above) or outside it is all fair game

Always remember , just because you marry a none cousin does not mean your child will not be mentally challenged. It is up to all mighty to decide who will get blessed and who will be left with a retard leader like one below

Some retards get to write executive orders these days

 

[Zibago]

What the heck are you talking about? Pakistan has the lowest numbers of gays in the entire world and most of the gays are from the western world especially in the most libtard countries..

Haha lol
@RealNapster

 

[RangeMaster]

I'm leaving it on my parents....
Hoping for the best (and hot) to come..

 

[Jugger]

According to me cousin marriages where done to keep the family wealth from going outside, that's why you get many royal marrying their close cousins and having weird babies.

 

[Surya 1]

Cousin is as good as real sister. Ban this sort of marriges. It will result in Genetic garbage only an ill generation.

 

[danger007]

Good for you pal, I hope others can escape the horrible institution of forced marriages like you did.

It's not forced.. they keep asking... my marriage my choice..

 

[Hamza913]

i don't know what the situation in Pak is but my experiences (not personal experience) has been young men marrying their cousin from their parents village. Having grown up in the UK they have never had any interaction with their cousins to them it's a feeling of complete strangers. I understand as I've never had a strong brotherly bond with my females cousins in Pak as I have had with the ones in UK. To me the ones in Pak are strangers having no interaction.

Yeah I know what you mean. Your ones in Pak would also probably be more distant and not count as your first cousins.

Cousin Marriages are fine until you don't start doing it after one Generation after another and than another and so on. You should also do marriages outside your families. In RASOOL SAW time there were very few cousin marriages mostly were outside family.

My point exactly.

 

[Peaceful Civilian]

Congratulations to Your Cousin .Because She will go to heaven paradise
.

Her children died, and you are saying congratulations, shame on you, her life is ruined and don't need paradise.
Good as far as good human being, and good with others.

 

[Hamza913]

You can't be serious?? I hope you're not serious!

This is wrong on so many levels.

Number one, why would you even want to marry your cousin? That's freaking disgusting. How can anyone not feel like their cousins are like a sibling? And if you can't then there's something wrong with you.

Now coming to the part about the "slight" increase in likelihood of defects resulting from such a relationship, shouldn't that be a reason to not engage in such a thing because any risk is a bad risk, whether it's likelihood is significant or insignificant.

And yes, marry outside of your race if you have to, there's nothing wrong with interracial marriages unless you're a racist.

You are having a very childish view on things.

Do you find Gays and Lesbians disgusting as well? I doubt it. Even if you do, I doubt you are going to stop them. I find this disgusting too, but I'm not going to ban it unless it's a problem. And it only becomes a problem over generations, if there was a problem when it occurs even once it wouldn't be legal in most countries such as the UK smarty pants.

So you think anyone who marries someone within their own race is racist? Well done, you have broken the stupid charts.

If you think this is a Pakistani problem only, think again. My Icelandic friends told me that they actually have a website which tells them how each Icelander is related to the other and they use it to avoid incest.

Hence why I said in my first few lines that this problem affects a lot of countries. Heck it goes as far as South Africa!

What about marrying your first cousin once removed? Anyone have idea?
What i have found in this regard that there is no complication in this marriage because family tree has been changed here.

It's less dangerous the more distant you go, but as I said before man, if you only do it once it's fine.

procreation is an eventuality, its just a matter of time before it happens.
would you rather have one disabled child and figure out your partner/cousin is the cause of the childs disability and continue to have kids, or divorce and have other kids. or simply stay married and not have kids, which works too.

The thing is, since it's the result of marrying your cousin over generations, she might actually have the problem as well.

cousin marriage is like f_cking your sister..its sick..its disgusting..and it makes retarded babies...
a nation is represented by its people and any nation would be as good as its people...cousin marriage destroy national gene pool by introducing genetic defects and weakening resistance...

Can you please read my post to see how stupid your statement is? Thank you.

Priorities

This needs to be one because if the practice continues over generations birth defects will go up and eventually we are going to be left embarrassed in front of the world along with many other nations.

What the heck are you talking about? Pakistan has the lowest numbers of gays in the entire world and most of the gays are from the western world especially in the most libtard countries..

Actually we have one of the highest.

Cousin Marriage is a disgusting practice, we need to illegalize it - I don't care what the Mullahs say. It has led to genetic/physical/mental degradation over the generations; we reverse this as Turkey has, but we'd need to stop the practice immediately.

I've read a dawn article informing how the average height decreased from 5'8/5'9 to 5'5.7.

While countries such as Turkey have banned this practice and reversed its effects.

http://www.hurriyetdailynews.com/tu...-finds.aspx?pageID=238&nID=7164&NewsCatID=339

But that's only if it occurs constantly over generations.

Wow man. I'm sorry for your cousin. But your story proves my point that cousin marriages, regardless of the fact that most don't result in defective offspring, should still be avoided because the risk is still there compared to marrying someone outside your relatives.

The risk is there for any marriage at all.

 

[AZADPAKISTAN2009]

Look buddy dsr478 you have a religion\view you follow and I have mine lets keep it like that

I personally did a investigation of inner family cousin marrige and found no evidence to think it is anything improper , checked my own faith's guidelines and am fully 100% satisfied

I am quite open to both outer circle marrieg / inner circle marrige

Becasue I found no substantial evidence that suggest marrying in outer circle would result in superior race

There is almost equal % of birth defects in outer circle marriges as is the case with inner circle marriges

This idea that if I married outside of my family it would give my future child a 100% IQ level or they will become Olympic champions is nothing but a thought

Our faith is simple if you like someone , communicate a conversation and propos it is not Rocket science (both inner / outer circle marriges)

Standard figure even in a society where there are lot of outer circle marriges


Remember 1 out of 33 babies , and that 1 baby could be donald trump even if every one married out of their circle

Yeah take a good look at this man's face
Baby #33

 

[Hamza913]

Its like playing Russian roulette
Why take any chances
Diversify

No matter how much you diversify, there's always a risk when you marry. Scientifically cousin marriages are fine as long as it doesn't become a family habit.