Coming south in search of a bride

[SrNair]

Actually sex ratio is increasing better in TN, but it will take 15 years to reflect in the society. In the last 3-4 years, all my relatives, friends, known people etc had only girl childs.. Saw only one or two with boy kids.. I was like astonished.. Lots of girl kids around, and more importantly they are more loved than their mothers were loved by their parents.. Good days ahead for girls kids atleast in Southern states.

And this problem is only among uppercaste people.
Anyway Southern states are better than North at any case.

Thiyyas and Ezhava castes are marrying off their girls to these Jats. I remember reading about such marriages back in the '80s itself. The women, some of them later told Malayali reporters, they're not really living the life as the wives of their husbands. Horrible scenario. People should know that South Indian culture is moderate and mellow (except Tamils) and they aren't aware of Tribal societies up north. The inter state marriages are basically disaster for Malabari Muslims also who marry off to Mysore and many devastated with the results.

There isn't no equivalent to Jats, Gujjars in south. May be Thevars, Bunts/Shettys can be the maximum in nuisance value.

Bunts are similar to that of Nairs in Kerala .But unlike them ,Bunts will always look for the brides from their community .They are less interactive to others .But I didnt heard about a problem like this among them.

If you're talking about abortions then let me remind you they kill 2 month old fetus, something which they cant see and are not attached to. So i guess there's no guilt conscious.

Identifying the gender like that is a criminal case in India .Right ?

 

[arp2041]

Kuch RAATEY to bitaiye Kerala me.......!

 

[Levina]

Identifying the gender like that is a criminal case in India .Right ?

If you're ready to pay little extra some radiologists tell you the gender of the baby. Its criminal but no system is fool proof.

BTW, let me know if @Levina is SINGLE

No LEVINA is not single...she's double,triple, quadruple and n-tuple.

 

[SrNair]

Kuch RAATEY to bitaiye Kerala me.......!

In English.

If you're ready to pay little extra some radiologists tell you the gender of the baby. Its criminal but no system is fool proof.


No LEVINA is not single...she's double,triple, quadruple and n-tuple.

One old man in Haryana pointed about that flourishing business in Haryana .Something that their Govt needs to clamp down.

 

[arp2041]

In English.

Spend some NIGHTS in Kerala........

Just like we spend days in Gujarat acc. to Amitabh Bachan

 

[SrNair]

Spend some NIGHTS in Kerala........

Just like we spend days in Gujarat acc. to Amitabh Bachan

Where ?
I mean which place ?

 

[arp2041]

Where ?
I mean which place ?

Oh' c'mon......You r from Kerala.......U know BETTER!!!

 

[SrNair]

Oh' c'mon......You r from Kerala.......U know BETTER!!!

No I dont Know

 

[livingdead]

Because you didnt see the entire southern region .
Some regions ,you know some regions in our state and other south Indian states .something that you dont know



Exactly and other state brides also faced that .

lol... where is the hotspot in your state?

 

[SrNair]

lol... where is the hotspot in your state?

You should visit our state .Then you can easily understand by yourself.

 

[livingdead]

You should visit our state .Then you can easily understand by yourself.

lol.. I will probably visit for scenery and massage and fish.. not for girls..

 

[SrNair]

lol.. I will probably visit for scenery and massage and fish.. not for girls..

Then you cant judge entire South Indians like that

 

[livingdead]

Then you cant judge entire South Indians like that

you may be right... at this point all I know is from mallu pr0n.. where aunties with oversized knickers rub thighs with lungi wearing mustachioed uncles..

 

[SrNair]

you may be right... at this point all I know is from mallu pr0n.. where aunties with oversized knickers rub thighs with lungi wearing mustachioed uncles..

Exactly that is where you are terribly wrong .
Both mens and womens .All of them changed and far different than your imagination .
That was a concept of earlier generations.

 

[zip]

And this problem is only among uppercaste people.
Anyway Southern states are better than North at any case.
Bunts are similar to that of Nairs in Kerala .But unlike them ,Bunts will always look for the brides from their community .They are less interactive to others .But I didnt heard about a problem like this among them.



Identifying the gender like that is a criminal case in India .Right ?

Yes.. I am a bunt.. Our sex ratio favors women.. Problem felt mainly because in our community boys usually get married after thirty and age difference between couple is around ten to twelve years..As family planning awareness started to pickup in 1980s it resulted in peculiar situation where boys born in 1980s have insufficient girls from 1990s..