So to summarize:
1. Chinese think that the very fact that Dalai Lama is allowed to stay in India, as well as so many refugees, is a mistake on India's part.
2. Indians say, "hey, we are not allowing any anti-China activities, so whats wrong? They are just refugees".
3. Chinese say, "No, you cannot have them on your land, since they plot anti-China activities. India says, "NO,they don't, you better prove it".
Refugees, religion leader, political asylum, freedom of speech, democracy, freedom fighter, that is the word game which Indians are never tired of playing.
First, they are not refugees, they are secessionists.
Second, India government's permitting those secessionists to set up an exiled governmet on your soil is a blatant anti-China activity.
Third, Tibetan government-in-exile stationing in India is a proof.
And steps 1 to 3 repeat in infinite loop. I don't see any meeting point at all, there is no point in continuing the discussion. But the basic issue here is, if both countries are willing to put 50 year old events behind them, only then can there be cooperation.
Otherwise, we'll again see an era of opposing camps and alliances being formed, and another long long cold war.
This is becoming a infinite loop because you are too shy to acknowledge they are a bunch of separatists and by hosting them, India is intervening in China's internal affairs. Your dishonesty on this matter leads to the dilemma of this discussion.
It is not 50 years old event, because India is still doing that. Indians are the ones who keep on itching us on this, Indians are also the ones who suggest us put it behind. How ironical!
Deep inside Indian hearts, you know better than anyone what it means by hosting Dalai Lama and why you are hosting them. Indian government knows it pretty well, by doing this it has broken the rules. So when China issued stapled visa policy to Kashmir, there was nothing Indian government could do. A rule violator has no say when others are playing a tit-for-tat for his little trick. And i am pretty sure similar incidents will happen constantly in the future as long as India refuses to stop messing up with China on Tibet.
Once again, i hope Indians can understand why China is doing this and who should be responsible for that, when another general who is from Kashmir is denied visa by China.
And don't threaten us with cold war, India is the one who has been playing duplicity here, not China. Plus, India alone is not capable of starting a cold war against China at all, at most India can be manipulated by US when circling China.