In an ideal world, I would always aspire for India & China to get along. Specially as the two countries are neighbors & both are responsible to develop & maintain the wellbeing of 35% of the world's populations.
I think India was doing its bit towards that since last 20 odd years. The original flawed policy of Nehru, which encouraged exiled Tibetans to be vocal about their govt. in exile had been all but reversed and one hardly hears anything about Tibetan govt. in exile nowadays. They are now merely refugees now, who has been slowly assimilated as Indian citizens and the core issue that the Chinese were mad about initially is being mitigated, slowly but surely.
It is now upto the Chinese govt. to show some reciprocal gestures, rather than the posturing, to make it move forward. Other-wise status quo, although not beneficial, will be accepted by GoI.
@Kaniska