Indeed, to you is your way and to me is mine.
There can be no specific way for living life, defined by anyone, for the sole reason that the world is an infinitely diverse place with countless variables. You have to see it to appreciate it. Only guidelines can be provided. But that is all. One can follow the path of moderation and hope for the best. How can you define a specific dress, when the temperatures on planet Earth can range from fifty degrees celsius positive to fifty degrees celsius negative? Imagine someone wearing a bikini in Norway and a Burqa in Libya.
People must realize that there is no way to know what is in anyone's heart, the circumstances of life differ from person to person, societal conditions vary, perspectives on life are distinct, the nature of people is dissimilar, the genetic traits are highly un-alike, mindset or way of thinking are highly non identical, that fate has never served everyone equally and thus making a definite judgment on people's personal life, so long as it doesn't affect anyone else, is inaccurate and unnecessary.
Senor Gandalf says something very relevant to what we are discussing here, in the fictional Lord of the Rings. He says "Then do not be too eager to deal out death in judgement. For even the very wise cannot see all ends." And that's Gandalf, compared to him, we are highly sinful and ignorant.
