Bilal9
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Yep, first you have to become her friend and after that you gotta navigate your way out of this friend zone by understanding her psychology and reacting accordingly
Very good!
The navigation has to proceed according to her 'taste' and 'comfort level'.
Most important principles:
1) Tell her what she wants to hear
2) Show her (of yourself) what she likes to see - meaning be presentable and cool...
3) Be likable, charming, approachable and funny (but not a clown) - very important
4) Once in a while do something super cool for her (which *she* thinks is cool) - examples: sending cards, flowers but in unique and imaginative ways. Arranging a candle-lit dinner at one of her favorite eateries with personal touches and themes close to *her* liking. This 'queen treatment' comes in a later stage though....
Do all this, without,
1) Being overbearing/annoying
2) Being blatantly obvious (like you're trying too hard at an early stage). This will put women off. Go slow.
3) Maintain an aura that you're in demand (very important) - never let your guard down, never let people tread over you in front of her.
The final objective is to,
1) 'Seal' the deal, texting->coffee->Panipuri->Dinner->??
2) But doing it in a manner that is acceptable to *her*
3) All the steps in #1 may take more than a couple of years, you decide if she's worth the wait.
4) Courtship is where 90% of the fun is - that is if you really like her...
Remember - a young woman wants you as much as you do, but because of South Asian society - she will never be public with it. Let things flow naturally, go with *her* pace.
Next - a lesson for women!
That is if there are women in PDF
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