Apologies if I was harsh on anyone

[sakha39]

I am encouraging him. I have seen his posts and the way he approaches thing. He has a beautiful mind. I am the only one who has offered him guidance where as rest are only consolidating.

Yeah saw your post about email. Real nice of you. Though I can't be of any help.

 

[BHarwana]

Yeah saw your post about email. Real nice of you. Though I can't be of any help.

every man can help another man. Because we all hold our own bag of experience.

 

[adil_minhas]

Sorry brother. The emotionalism of our families escape from your country carried me away. I wish you the best sir. But it will be hard for me to forgive those who worked hand in hand with the oppressors. That was harsh too me putting it like that. Just know that I am less anti Indian in personal.


I'd prefer a job in history or journalism. But you know the story of the bear. He will eat anything when he is hungry.


I don't mix my personal life with forum life, this isn't even my real name but I will be willing to talk to you. This is way too personal for me but I will tell you my background and other details if you send me your e mail id through PM. Thanks for the offer and will offer you details of what I am planning now too.

Bhaijan my sincere hidayat to you would be do not be as outspoken as you are in Pakistan.

Do not fall afoul of your army, deep state, mullah .... whatever name you wish to give it.

Write pro army. Pro ISI. You might be pleasantly surprised.

 

[Moonlight]

@haviZsultan Hey, you're a strong person because not everyone has guts to share the problems on any public platform. But you did & that tells, you're a man with grit. Just don't let the attitudes of people around you affect you. InshAllah your problems will get solved. Good people face the most in life. But at the end of day, they get rewarded with the best. Stay strong!

 

[haviZsultan]

Bhaijan my sincere hidayat to you would be do not be as outspoken as you are in Pakistan.

Do not fall afoul of your army, deep state, mullah .... whatever name you wish to give it.

My experiences are based on my life in Lucknow. You haven't been to Pak. Short it might be but I witnessed the repulsion Hindutvas felt for muslims. Pakistan in reality is far more free than what you might believe. I haven't criticized the army or deep state but I have criticized the mullah and a lot of people do it with no consequences.

Write pro army. Pro ISI. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Like the Kashmiri separatists are surprised?

Why are we bringing politics in this thread anyway. You made your decision we made ours. Now is the time to make the most of it. Best of luck. No more diverging from my apology. It is to you as well sir.

 

[BHarwana]

Thanks. I don't mix my personal life with forum life, this isn't even my real name but I will be willing to talk to you. This is way too personal for me but I will tell you my background and other details if you send me your e mail id through PM. Thanks for the offer and will offer you details of what I am planning now too.

it is done.

 

[django]

Excellent intiative sir...so kudos ( I steal this word from @django ). Similarly I extend my apologies to anyone who I may have messed up with and hurt ... It happens that in the heat of debate few feathers will always get ruffled up. In the end we are all friends and I don't any personal grudges against anyone.
@The Eagle @MastanKhan @Farah Sohail @BATMAN and all others

.Kudos

 

[adil_minhas]

My experiences are based on my life in Lucknow. Short it might be but I witnessed the repulsion Hindutvas felt for muslims. Pakistan in reality is far more free than what you might believe. I haven't criticized the army or deep state but I have criticized the mullah and alot of people do it with no consequences.


Like the Kashmiri separatists are surprised?

Why are we bringing politics in this thread anyway. You made your decision we made ours. Now is the time to make the most of it. Best of luck. No more diverging from my apology. It is to you as well sir.

You might recall that I was there on the thread where you had a long and pretty nasty spat with genda.

Such things might get you in trouble in the real world.

Which is what I was alluding to.

You do not need to apologize to me. Because you have never offended me.

 

[atifM]

get rid of this computer go enjoy real life outside and u will be fine

 

[ssethii]

I would suggest you take a bag, fill it with your stuff and take it with you and travel as far as you can. Always worked for me and opened new avenues each time like a therapy. Works best if you have besties along too.

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

We all get hyper sometime which is natural thing but we should not keep enmity toward each others for having different opinions and beliefs . Our intentions should be to work for betterment of our country no matter what is our ethnicity or where we came from. Pakistan is facing many serious challenges and we cannot sort this out if we start fighting among ourselves

 

[Super Falcon]

Don't loose confidence in urself

 

[haviZsultan]

We all get hyper sometime which is natural thing but we should not keep enmity toward each others for having different opinions and beliefs . Our intentions should be to work for betterment of our country no matter what is our ethnicity or where we came from. Pakistan is facing many serious challenges and we cannot sort this out if we start fighting among ourselves

I agree. No one should carry his or her arguments and fights to his grave. I think we should all unburden ourselves with our disputes before we go.

 

[jetray]

Hi, I want to dedicate this thread to my apology to anyone who I have been harsh on lately. Tolerance and acceptance/listening of all views is the cornerstone of debate and I may have failed in this recently.

Please note that I have had an extremely tough life and am facing multiple problems recently and before. I lost three relatives, one very close during the last 3-4 years. The non close ones could have been murdered. And the close one drowned if I don't know something.

I have been struggling to find a job, be independent and my parents have become very different and cold to my problems since the last few years. I am thinking a good job would give me power and independence but I am still far from being independent. This and my parents doing some things are really affecting my self confidence.

On the other hand everything I have tried has failed. I wrote 2 books hoping that my financial situation will change with their publishing but I failed to get published.

Sorry if this sounds like a sob story and because I generally do not share personal problems I have kept this brief rather than detail my problems bit by bit which would even reveal what RAW did to my people. Anyway.

Note that I don't want sympathy or help. Just saying why I have been acting contrary to my core beliefs of liberty and listening to the other side.

I do admit I have been offended by some views. Needless to say I am a Karachite with unproven pashtun background but our family calls itself muhajir. Now I am very patriotic but our family moved a little late. I have seen my share of racism over this. Just because of the Indian muslims who are traitors and Afghan nationals who spit on my country, don't judge us all. Immigration is a truth and people move from somewhere, its the story of earth from the time of homo sapiens. What is the point of denying us when not only the institutions vetted us but also when we start businesses and cater to the needs to the nation by providing jobs. What happened, happened, we migrated to what is now Pakistan. Now its time to make the country better. I have every intention of serving Pakistan.

Anyway that is beyond the scope of this discussion. Here I want to apologize to anyone upon whom I let my anger out.

The only person I don't apologize to is one person I won't name which I am ready to do if he atleast admits he was wrong too. Its not you ghenda.

others. Including banned members. Sorry webbie, mods for that mess you had to deal with a few weeks ago because of me.

Life is hard, that's a fact whichever side of the border you are . Some times our expectations are way too high which leads to way too much stress. When things happen which are not under our control we feel helpless that's any thing but natural. Every one is in the same state but they keep fighting on thats what matters.

Dont get too personally attached to India/Pakistan thing in your daily personal life. These things are good for debate but not for daily living. At the end of the day you need to earn for yourself like every other common man does. Simply remove those unwanted variables that emotionally upset you.

 

[AZADPAKISTAN2009]

Hi, I want to dedicate this thread to my apology to anyone who I have been harsh on lately. Tolerance and acceptance/listening of all views is the cornerstone of debate and I may have failed in this recently.

Please note that I have had an extremely tough life and am facing multiple problems recently and before. I lost three relatives, one very close during the last 3-4 years. The non close ones could have been murdered. And the close one drowned if I don't know something.

I have been struggling to find a job, be independent and my parents have become very different and cold to my problems since the last few years. I am thinking a good job would give me power and independence but I am still far from being independent. This and my parents doing some things are really affecting my self confidence.

On the other hand everything I have tried has failed. I wrote 2 books hoping that my financial situation will change with their publishing but I failed to get published.

Sorry if this sounds like a sob story and because I generally do not share personal problems I have kept this brief rather than detail my problems bit by bit which would even reveal what RAW did to my people. Anyway.

Note that I don't want sympathy or help. Just saying why I have been acting contrary to my core beliefs of liberty and listening to the other side.

I do admit I have been offended by some views. Needless to say I am a Karachite with unproven pashtun background but our family calls itself muhajir. Now I am very patriotic but our family moved a little late. I have seen my share of racism over this. Just because of the Indian muslims who are traitors and Afghan nationals who spit on my country, don't judge us all. Immigration is a truth and people move from somewhere, its the story of earth from the time of homo sapiens. What is the point of denying us when not only the institutions vetted us but also when we start businesses and cater to the needs to the nation by providing jobs. What happened, happened, we migrated to what is now Pakistan. Now its time to make the country better. I have every intention of serving Pakistan.

Anyway that is beyond the scope of this discussion. Here I want to apologize to anyone upon whom I let my anger out.

The only person I don't apologize to is one person I won't name which I am ready to do if he atleast admits he was wrong too. Its not you ghenda.

@save_ghenda @war&peace @Zibago @Divergent1 @Well.wisher @doordie @WAJsal @WebMaster others. Including banned members. Sorry webbie, mods for that mess you had to deal with a few weeks ago because of me.

Well at end of day , every one is human and things always change​

I suggest Joining a Gym for your mood/health matters
It's all 99% related to chemicals in your body , Train and lift like a champ
4 to 5 days out of 7 days
Go Run in Gym or Take up cycling

Be the guy in picture below , no work no problem got Health and fab body = Million bucks right there

• You may not realize is that when you are young your health is worth 10 million bucks.
  
• Go every next day (Run and Lift weights) , that is most folks do world wide
• Get up at 7 am and sleep early

As for the issue of Job working Part time or full time or Volunteer , well obviously you have to stop with Internships and demand $$$ for Role.

Being from Peshawar / Karachi / Islamabad or Lahore don't matter , you just have to find a market in your area that needs people (Man power work and get on with the plan)

Just if you criticize someone does not makes you bad person hell , if something will be irrational , criticize to some degree and then take break 100% normal

Hit the gym and grow your network for Job !!!! Talk to people and let people talk on your behalf that is how it works in real world

Life or death is part of being alive , and living $$$$ is not every thing as the movies and fake life persons which surround us in drama / movies / songs ... every one goes thru it

Your health , your close family is important etc

This is the wealth you already got

• Education and brain to think rationally , or logically
  
• You still have family members who are alive you still have great chance to share interesting moments with them
• You can write (again no one knows your major ) but if you can write you have 99% of skills people need in job be able to write well articulated ideas.
  
• Plus if you prayed (you likely have millions more then anyone else in good deed) always great to have

[Heck you are writing in proper English while in Pakistan , Do you know how many folks can't even write their names properly ????] - Find your potential


Wake up one day , grab a tea cup and admire the world around you the sky the natural life
Million times more useful then (the world which is shown in Media which 99% is fake). Really admire the world around you every morning . What an amazing world its been created for you to explore!!!

• PUMP ZE IRON BUDDY PUMP THE IRON , as 65 year old billionaire wat is the one thing he wishes to buy and he can't and he would tell you , "I would like to be young again!!!"
• You got something what even billionaires have "Your Health!!!"