El Sidd
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@Moonlight tumhe sirf cricket dekhne kay liye Think Tank banaya gaya tha?
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A month later you guys are still paying attention to this. Fema-nazi's are the own worst enemies of women. They trivialise the real issues faced by women in our society and distort the conversation away from them.
"kana khud gharm karlo", "lets talk about periods" - those are the real issues being faced by women? Not things like the lack of opprtunities in the workplace, the gap between literacy rates, freedom to travel/work/study without sexual harassment etc - NO! The real issue is who operates the microwave and whether you should be discrete about excreting bodily fluids.
Human beings don't have any specific gender based bonds. Men do not have bonds with other men simply on the basis of being men, neither do women, femanists need to get their heads out of their gaping woo-hoos's and understand that. All bonds between people are based on individual relationships. A child is equally loyal to mother and father, a parent is equally loving of son and daughter. The differences come in the expectations of the roles we are expected to play in society.
We should talk about those roles, not bullsh1t like "man-shaming".
"kana khud gharm karlo", "lets talk about periods" - those are the real issues being faced by women? Not things like the lack of opprtunities in the workplace, the gap between literacy rates, freedom to travel/work/study without sexual harassment etc - NO! The real issue is who operates the microwave and whether you should be discrete about excreting bodily fluids.
Human beings don't have any specific gender based bonds. Men do not have bonds with other men simply on the basis of being men, neither do women, femanists need to get their heads out of their gaping woo-hoos's and understand that. All bonds between people are based on individual relationships. A child is equally loyal to mother and father, a parent is equally loving of son and daughter. The differences come in the expectations of the roles we are expected to play in society.
We should talk about those roles, not bullsh1t like "man-shaming".
GumNaam
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Khana Khud garam karo
Hmm, sounds very familiar...what I'm about to tell you happened in front of my eyes here in the u.s.
actually had an indian neighbor (hindu) with two kids v(girl and boy) whose wife said that to him. being a brahmin chauvinist that he was, he was very quick to turn around and say, no problem, oh and by the way, rent ab tum khud pay karo, may chala.
Long story short, he got a divorce, took custody of his son while giving her custody of the daughter. Now both of them are struggling with no life partner and their children are suffering while going thru an emotional hell.
Lesson learned: neither should consider there other as inferior and self as superior. Rather, both should consider one as INCOMPLETE without the other.
Daikho, feminism ho ya chauvinism, dono nay marva dayna hay. There is only and ONLY one way that will lead to success between men and women and HERE it is...
Hmm, sounds very familiar...what I'm about to tell you happened in front of my eyes here in the u.s.
actually had an indian neighbor (hindu) with two kids v(girl and boy) whose wife said that to him. being a brahmin chauvinist that he was, he was very quick to turn around and say, no problem, oh and by the way, rent ab tum khud pay karo, may chala.
Long story short, he got a divorce, took custody of his son while giving her custody of the daughter. Now both of them are struggling with no life partner and their children are suffering while going thru an emotional hell.
Lesson learned: neither should consider there other as inferior and self as superior. Rather, both should consider one as INCOMPLETE without the other.
Daikho, feminism ho ya chauvinism, dono nay marva dayna hay. There is only and ONLY one way that will lead to success between men and women and HERE it is...
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Very mature arguement.
