Bro you are making no sense at all. Having a natural inclination towards something has nothing to do with equality. If you like woman A more than woman B then does that mean you're oppressing woman A ? You are favouring woman A because of desirable traits and not because she's some another gender. This doesn't mean the world or society would take away woman B's rights and opportunities away. It's like complaining that if Nawaz Sharif is a billionaire then you should be one too otherwise you're not equal. I don't think you understand what equality means. You're drawing apples and oranges.
Stop flip flopping every other post. You're complaining about women having gender biases by negating a movement that is against gender biases in the first place. Hell feminism will probably do us good because if anything it'll lower the expectations placed on men because women will no more be reliant on men alone to feed them. Empowering involves sharing burden and responsibilities.
Gender bias mean wanting one thing for your gender and different thing for the opposite gender.
The point is that these feminists are demanding equality but their natural preference is just opposite of equality.
Women want men who are stronger,taller,wealthier and smarter then them. And these preferences are gendered based.
Men want almost all the opposite things.
How can their be equality when these women want a men superior to them in almost all matters?How can their be equality between two gender when both gender desire the opposite things?
Your claim that western women will simply refuse to marry a man who earns less makes no sense because if all women were aiming for the the top percentile of men majority of men and women would be single and we'd be seeing falling populations.
Studies have show women prefer men who earn more then them.One of the study.
I don’t think the slogan ‘Khana Garam Karlo’ Should be offending Men. I believe it annoyed a lot of males out there in Pakistan, I read the reasoning behind the lady who made the slogan and she said it’s not implying Men as ‘slaves’ but to make them self-sufficient - because Patriarchy. Lol
No, the lady is implying that men have for centuries treated women as a slave by asking them to do domestic work.It is creating the perception in females mind that men have oppressed women for centuries.A false perception.
In reality,men have for centuries protected women by doing dangerous and very hard work.Even in this modern age, all the dangerous and hard work is being done by men.
These feminist are trying to create gulf and hatred between the two genders.Look what has happened in the west.
High divorce rate,out of wedlock children,more persons with mental health issues,broken families and etc.
We don't want these same things to happen in Pakistan.
Just like how young girls are told to join their mothers in kitchen to prepare food and wash dishes, and help in other chores of the house, boys should also be made to do the same.
If men take up more and more domestic responsibility, children will learn that these tasks are not naturally gendered. When children see only women do housework, they internalise domestic work as being fundamentally feminine — and this is how the cycle repeats and gendering reproduced.
But the tasks are gendered.
Studies have shown women prefer those jobs which are
not highly competitive,which are repetitive,which are easy,desk jobs,which give them more social time and etc.Like teaching,secretary,daycare,nurses and etc.
Also the studies have shown men prefer
highly competitive jobs,which are not repetitive,which are challenging and which give more chance to rise and etc.like fighter pilots,cops,programmers,engineers,competitive sports and etc.
Even in the west the main bread earner is still the man.And in cases where men are stay at home dads and women are the main earner,the women quickly looses the respect for her men and the relationship fails.
When a boy or girl are young,they are given work tasks more suitable to their gender because to make them understand that they both are different.When they accept and understand these differences, only then can live a good and happy life.
Would you ask a teen girl to carry 20kg up two floors?or tell her to work as a labour at least 10 hours a day to make ends meet?
NO!
Because it is impossible for her to do these things.
Real feminism isn’t about hating Men - we have some great and wonderful Men around us who have supported us and we are independent because of them. It’s just as you said equality
Want me to quotes some of the founders of feminism on men?
millions of pakistnai females live in terrible conditions is not a masla ?
So working at home in safe and secure environment are terrible conditions?
And working as labour outside doing hard and dangerous work is an easy life?