no, simply not, again you are effected by bollywood media, you are in trillion club not bcoz you are an industrialized or civilized country, its just bcoz you breed like pests, 1.3 billion pests with per capita of third world, with huge income inequality where ambani and other of his likes own empires of 100+ billions alone, you still have more population under povrty then subsaharan Africa, as for top growing economy, well whats you growth rate 7%? Pakistan achived 10% in the past, as for respect, well the respect was overwhelmingly with Pakistan as long as Pakistan was serving their interests till 90, now thier interests lies with China containment, so its your time, although i still believe America did great mistake by chosing bharatis instead of Pakistan as their partners. They soon will realize their mistakes when they will see they arent getting any strategic advantage by supporting bharatis.
I agree with you, no one should be obsessed with Kashmir, Kashmir too have right to live, dont kill them for ego, Pakistan bharat should talk and arrange plebiscite so we can live peace. As for begging bowl well we are still student of bharat in this regard, it does not suit citizen of top most beggar nation to taunt others.