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You as a Man : Will You Marry a Woman Much Older Than You ?

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You as a Man : Will You Marry a Woman Much Older Than You ?

This Letter written by one of my Cousins, I am Posting it here, It is good to marry a Woman Much Older Than You?

Friends is it good…………

Will I ever marry a older woman? Good question...well, for the past couple of months, I have fallen in love with a woman that I've met online...and I've fallen very very deeply in love. I've only found out her real age later on. I am 24 and she is to be 27 in a week.

But you know what? it doesn't bother me at all. In my view, when you try and find someone, you subcontiously follow your instinct and look well for the looks, what ever your preference may be.

When you do meet a person online, depending on how things go, you might only find out information such as age and looks after.

This is a possitive thing actually, since it does meen that you first know the person on a emotional level other then looks. As it may seem, age different such as ours (witch I use only as a example) seems extremely a bad idea, but the idea of love is not limited by age.

Truth be told, I do find that its probably because of her age, the experience that she has lived threw, and the views that come with her generation that I do find her so amazing. Most girls around my age are too active and roudy for my taste. It might not be very usual for a male of my age, but I do love to just sit together, cuddle, and take things very slow, very calm and loving.

Clubbing and such are not of interest to me. Witch is why that I'd hope that the public would not see marriges such as this to negative. I'm sure one of the big arguments would be that a marrige like this would meen that me, being hte young man, would miss out on opertunities like being a father, and all sorts of events like that that the public sees as a normal events in a couples life. What the public must do is be more open.

I myself do recongnize such things, and still, I would rather be with her then have the usual normal couple thing. I see myself such in love with her..it really seems like something clicked on more then just emotion, but in the soul as well as the heart. We have conected so deeply that I wouldn't really want to be with anyone else. As you can imagine, in fear of public not accepting this, for it is not the usual thing, is the reason I have made myself anonymous.

As complexe as it might seem to the people reading this, or even disgusting as it might seem to some of you, the situation is rather simple to me. I love her, she loves me. I'd do anything for her, and so would she for me. Thats all you need to make a wonderful relationship. Only thing that doesn't make it easy, is the publics view and acceptance, and that, unfortunatly, is something outside our controle.

Well, those are somewhat my views on the topic. Only other thing I do have to add is that such marriges or relationship are only deemed like a bad thing for the public views them as such...but then why can some celebrities, usualy old male celebrities, marry so much yonger women? I leave that question to you.

There is only 3 years difference between 2 of them, it is not much much older as it was stated in the post. Secondly, as long as they both want each other, it doesnt matter what their ages are!! Your woman older than you have its advantages as well, they are mature enough to know the relationship you are in.
 
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Yes i will.....

On funny side i look for source before reading the post.....And i was looking for the source :lol:
 
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I like the big (chubby) mature women, I hate skinny small girls.

Just for you ma man,

I have an explicit email containing pictures of a big chubby women with a normal man.
wanna see? PM me your email. :smokin:

Its just because i care for you :woot::chilli::partay:
 
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what is wrong with you guys? lol. hope you are not confusing chubby with curvy women. curvy women are dreams of every man.

Chubby in the sense that she should be nice and healthy and not too thin but certainly not overweight.
 
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I meant Chubby = Jolly, healthy, cute, having fat at right places, having a nice chubby girl in my arms and exploring new rolls and creases drives me wild, more to love ;)

what is wrong with you guys? lol. hope you are not confusing chubby with curvy women. curvy women are dreams of every man.
 
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I am not a man,but as a woman i can say one thing with 100% conviction.It takes a long time for Boys to become Men.Women on the contrary mature very fast.So marrying an older woman is in fact good for boys.It helps them grow up.On the other hand in the said case a 3 year age difference is hardly earth shattering.Older males marry younger females,because it boosts their ego,and makes them feel that they haven't lost their charm.It has also got something to do with creating progeny and feeling good about oneself.

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I will :D
I don't mind the age difference as long as my partner is cooperative :P
 
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