Oh thank you Sethi Sahib for the complement !
But why would we even need to consider whether Pakistan is an attractive proposition to the Kashmiris or not ? That would only be a cause for concern to us were a Scotland like referendum were looming right over us which it isn't and would probably never be till this region has a bit more maturity and bit less insecurity in who they are. Right now just maintain our stance but focus on ourselves first.
Briefly learn how the game is played; learn how if you've got the right nuisance value even your most horrendous acts that can never be condoned get rationalized away. In short learn from Israel, India and the US. Learn the power of words, drama and above all economics. In the meantime concentrate with ripening restlessness on kick starting Pakistan's economy and solving the internal challenges that Pakistan faces.
Besides Sethi Sahib I am a Kashmiri....do you think I'd ever abandon Pakistan just because economically or socially its not the paradise we all wanted it to be ? I don't take out a weighing scale and weigh the pros and cons of being a Pakistani...I feel privileged every single day to be born as one because for me my relationship with the State of Pakistan is not a rational construct it is purely an emotional construct - I love it and I don't need a reason to love it. There are countless many like me. Aaap ne tou eik hi pal mein paraya kar diyaa ?