Oi stop using my lands as a bargaining chip, Sethi Sahib !
Hum Kashmiriyon ne aap ka kiya bigaraa haiii that you're linking us to paradoxes and what not ?
Khair jokes aside; there is no paradox nor do we need to make a case for Kashmir to cede to us. Maintaining our legitimate stand over Kashmir and working towards economically strengthening Pakistan are not mutually exclusive to each other. Its not as if by saying that the Kashmiris are being denied their legitimate right to self-determination or that the Indian state has used everything from rape to murder as an instrument of domestic policy over there, constitutes as an advocacy of saying 'lads pick up your arms and lets liberate Kashmir'.
No need to rake up the Kashmir issue more than we traditionally do - Talk about it at the UN, meet the Hurriyat, touch upon it at Secretary level talks etc. but otherwise have an introverted approach; which is to say that work towards strengthening Pakistan from the inside and learning how the game works before continuing to play it - In short take a break from everything that doesn't contribute to Pakistan's economic development.
On the other hand we must also realize that India is a rising power in the region which has an over-inflated opinion of herself as the nucleus of South Asia around which everything revolves. It envisions herself as the second coming of some mythical Greater India in the modern sense. Which means the rest of us are supposed to keep our territories and everything but fall in line by recognizing the star player in the room. Right now India is in the throes of getting to grips with her reality as a significant military and economic power of the region with extra-regional aspirations. If we continue on falling in line it will only serve to further strengthening her border-line hegemonic delusions.
Therefore I think Pakistan should be firm but not needlessly confrontational in her stance over her core issues so that the tone of a new Indo-Pak relationship isn't set to our detriment.
Aur Sethi Sahib kiya ho rahaa haii aaj kal ?