What should really happen, is that media on both sides should play a role, and a much stronger one. Not the one that BJP or PMLN wants it to play with respect to India and Pakistan.
The media on both sides should setup talk shows with rules for respectful conduct. Bring in the Army Chiefs, the Ministers, the Prime Ministers, and let's debate in front of the globe and find solutions. I bet you my money, you'd be surprised how quickly the Kashmir issue will find a solution acceptable to both parties, along with the beginning of a peaceful and trust building effort.
These leaders on both sides need to be held accountable to the 1.5 billion people who they represent, and at the end, while they'll hide in their bunkers, it is this 1.5 billion strong regional population that's at the risk of dealing with the worst of the worst if a war breaks out. So media needs to setup discussions, meetings and hold these people accountable on each side to speed up some way of moving forward. Talking, understanding and agreeing is the ONLY way forward. If wars could've won anything, by now, either the entire India and Pakistan would have become one Hindu region or a one Muslim region. That's not the case, meaning, wars haven't produced jack fu*king shiit!! So lets work on something else that would produce results and that's put these fools across from each others on sofa's and out cameras on and ask them way forward. Let's see how many of them want to get re-elected and they WILL produce shiit that would make sense vs. this war drama.