The trouble with Indians and Pakistanis who engage in a slugfest with each other online is that they take the other to be a representative sample of their country.
PDF by its very nature will attract Indians who want to retaliate to the anti-India content in the forum. Thus it is not some random selection of people whom you can call representative. In their own circles Indians are critical of the government and the state of affairs. The fact is that no one likes criticism from another country because their manhood gets challenged. You can lampoon IK as much as you like, but if an Indian does the same you will be very touchy about it. Same is true of Indians too.
If you go to the comments section of Youtube for Indian and Pakistani street food videos you will find a flood of mutual love and admiration. That is not the reality either. The reality for majority of the population on both sides is indifference. Not contemptuous indifference, but simply 'too-busy-with-my-own-struggles' indifference. Media does not like this indifference because media thrives on conflict. So they have to keep doing something about it.
There are brainwashed people in every corner of the planet. Regardless of race, passport, per capita income or HDI