What do teenagers do that you find cringe worthy?

[Mage]

Why you do that ? Like what's the psychology behind teens doing that ? Stress ? Attention seeking ? Or just self loathing?

It could be anything. Attention seeking is the most common of them all. A friend of mine wrote his gf's name in his hand with blade. Stress could be the reason. Although smoking/drugs are more common affects of stress. Self loathing is another possibility. There are times when you hate yourself and want to do some sort of self harm. My reason was a combination of self loathing and attention seeking. It was a way for me to say "look how displeased I am with myself". It really scares your parents.

Backbiting , disrespecting teachers , drugs may seem nothing to you but belive me , these things can be injurious to you and your mind.
I've no right to force u but just as a well wisher. . Please leave these things .

Well I am who I am. You see backbiting and talking bad about your teacher/boss is quite common. You see when you talk with your friends or a friendly co-workers, this just happens. Talking how shitty person your boss is or what kind of unreadable code he gave you to debug is quite common among co-workers. Then you start talking how idiot/incompetent he is and get into his personal life of which you have very little idea. I don't know about others. But for me its quite common.
I am not into drugs. Not yet. But yeah smoking is a habit I got into early. Leaving it is good but not that easy. Specially when you are stressed with work and other issues it is like your only friend. If you haven't smoked then you won't understand.

 

[RealNapster]

What .. world has cigarettes ?? I didn't even know .

My surprise is real. Though mery kuch dost aesy thy jo pety thy. But saary he chonky engineering students the to red & white wale awaam the.

 

[Mage]

The last worst experience I had was teens crowding the aisles in a train and using the 'F'-word as if it was going out of fashion in the next fifteen minutes and they had quotas to use up.



I'll come back; got to do some things urgently.

I was asking what were the weird things you did when you were a teenage person yourself.

 

[cleverrider]

True ..
Teens need a proper guiding of what love is .

They don't even know how to communicate to opposite gender properly and they fall in love with them , extreme love . That they realise was just temporary attraction in their later life.

Feelings and liking of someone by their looks/personality/getting used to are all up for a debate.
Love, Perfect, Right, and wrong are powerful words. That a human mind can not comprehend let alone act on them...

Death is a reality.
Nature is.
Time is.

Love is Not.

Did it just get too deep?

 

[django]

Hello ,
What are some things pakistani teenagers or your respective country's teens do that you find cringe worthy ?
Here's my list ;

Cutting ;
I understand when teens become stressed , they cut themselves but this cutting is more of a show off and gaining attention than the real issue . I don't understand what's the need to cut yourself after every break up and then show it to your class , friends and be proud of it ?
Look at their mentality , I have an example of a friend who burned her arm after a break up , her bf name started from 'U' so she made 'u' from cigarette on her arm , later she found another but again broke up , his name started from ' S' so she converted 'U to'S' by cigarette , then she found another whose name started from 'Z' , after her breakup I was worried how would she convert 's' to 'z' so I gave her a alphabetical sticker of 'Z' and told her to paste it on her arm instead of burning . It's both sad and cringe worthy , I couldn't understand they do it and then they show it to people , for what ?

Backbiting ;
This is a very serious low moral of teens . You see them backbiting everyone , their parents , their siblings , their friends , class fellows everyone . They're not happy with people , they'll find flaws in every good .

Obsession with Smoking, drugs ;
The way they bring cigarettes , drugs or alcohol in colleges and schools and invite others to join just for the reason that they want to sound cool is seriously pathetic . There's always that group in the class that does such stuff. They also try to publicise it by uploading such photos in their social media's with a hash tag # mera pyar hookah baar '".

Disrespecting teachers ;
Very pathetic . You'll see them making pathetic names on their teachers or doing their acting behind them . Abusing them in friends company , being rude to them and degrading them is another serious flaw in our teens. Blaming and abusing teachers when they get low grades ' That btch has some personal enmity with me , don't know who made her a teacher , I had a good paper, such a slt'

Do you know who my dad is ;

Like I'm not interested to know your dad or have any business with him but why do you always bring your dad when getting in a conflict . You've done wrong , accept humbly , try to move along ,. No need to go to threatening other people with such silly rants .

Trying to be gangsters ;
These teenage kids would go gangster in their appearance , acting as gangsters , talking as gangsters, calling eachother daada, Don . They'll wet their pants if they ever saw a real gun in their life.

What do you find cringe worthy about them ?

Teenagers act like they know it all, give them some sensible advice and they become unhinged due to pressure from their friends to act a certain way, they waste their valuable time on totally unnecessary things instead of using that time to improve their attributes, later on down the line they regret their behavior, in their teenage years they need to study hard and enjoy themselves when they are more mature at uni in student hostels.Kudos W-J

 

[Well.wisher]

Feelings and liking of someone by their looks/personality/getting used to are all up for a debate.
Love, Perfect, Right, and wrong are powerful words. That a human mind can not comprehend let alone act on them...

Death is a reality.
Nature is.
Time is.

Love is Not.

Did it just get too deep?

Nah it gone well .

 

[Mage]

Feelings and liking of someone by their looks/personality/getting used to are all up for a debate.
Love, Perfect, Right, and wrong are powerful words. That a human mind can not comprehend let alone act on them...

Death is a reality.
Nature is.
Time is.

Love is Not.

Did it just get too deep?

I would ask you to define reality but that isn't in the scope if this thread I think.

 

[cleverrider]

I would ask you to define reality but that isn't in the scope if this thread I think.

5 senses, sight, smell, sound, taste and touch. A person looks at his father in 1970 and in then 2017 (humans definition of time). The physical appearance will say it all and what time has to done to his father. He and everyone around him know if he is 100, there is no way he will be alive after 50 years. That is time, described with a small example for small minds like mine and yours.

Death...Reality you get it..
Nature.. reality.. you get it..
or

Not?

 

[Well.wisher]

The last worst experience I had was teens crowding the aisles in a train and using the 'F'-word as if it was going out of fashion in the next fifteen minutes and they had quotas to use up.

I think f language is also common in adults too . Look at pdf lol

 

[Mage]

5 senses, sight, smell, sound, taste and touch. A person looks at his father in 1970 and in then 2017 (humans definition of time). The physical appearance will say it all and what time has to done to his father. He and everyone around him know if he is 100, there is no way he will be alive after 50 years. That is time, described with a small example for small minds like mine and yours.

Say someone is blind or numb or maybe deaf.....that person has less sense of reality? To be precise you don't see with your eyes. Your eyes are merely a receiver. It receives the signal. Which is frequencies of light. Your optical nerve transmit it to your brain. And then your brain interprets the signal and forms your vision. In other words you see what your brain wants you to see. You have no way to tell whether you are in an augmented reality or not. It could be that your brain others you see and interact with are just a creation of your brain. Or it could be that you are living in a simulation. And honestly you have no way to tell. And the possibility that what you call reality is actually a simulation is quite high.

He and everyone around him know if he is 100, there is no way he will be alive after 50 years. That is time, described with a small example for small minds like mine and yours.

Nope. That's just your sense of time. I don't think you can define time. Many scientists and philosophers have tried. It still remains one of the greatest mysteries.

Death...Reality you get it..

You have to die to know for sure.

Nature.. reality.. you get it..
or

Not?

Nope. Its just a perception.

 

[Joe Shearer]

I was asking what were the weird things you did when you were a teenage person yourself.

I was a Sainik School boy. Not much scope for weird things.

I think f language is also common in adults too . Look at pdf lol

I never was comfortable using it, until I started working for an IT multi-national, where first names for all, up to the MD and the Chairman, and the f-word, were standard. It still felt odd. It differed, I found, from organisation to organisation. Personally, even when women used it freely themselves, I couldn't bring myself to use it in their presence.

 

[takeitwithyou]

annoying? Think getting a 'think tank' designation on a forum actually buys them a clue.

 

[Well.wisher]

Teens licking the floor on which Justin Bieber passed .. .

 

[Hareeb]

So he means teenagers are in search of girls 24/ 7 ?
So why use this term pondi? Girls are humans , don't call them anything else ... @Hareeb .

Rehne do, ap ni samjho gi.

 

[cleverrider]

Say someone is blind or numb or maybe deaf...

Stopped reading after this.. attracting an average mind was never the intent. This post? I know whatever.