What defines #MeToo ??

[Nein]

This is why Islam segregates men and women. The law that Allah has set is for our benefit.

Men and women can never be friends you know why they cant as the answers are obvious.

 

[jamahir]

All I can say is stay away from extramarital affairs at all costs. You know never know when your past will come back to haunt you

Well, if one's society makes space for feminism then one's past can bring out something that one wanted to forget.

Feminism is deadly.

Victim blaming continues. No wonder India has a lax attitude towards oppression of women in general.

Should I now play the victim??

Women flirt with men all the time but if the man do the same, it becomes harassment..wow what a hypocrisy.

Exactly !! Such hypocrisy !!

Even many of friends (both male and female) used to tell me "she is totally flirting with you, didn't you get that" ... And I would say there was no clear signal but many times it went beyond subtle and became too obvious but I was never sure how to respond except distance myself from the person gradually... perhaps that's difference between between how men and women think.

Yeah, that happens.

Most of this movement is loads of bullcrap but this movement also is endorsement of the boundaries set by Islam when it comes to relationship between a man and a women.

This is why Islam segregates men and women. The law that Allah has set is for our benefit.

Men and women can never be friends you know why they cant as the answers are obvious.

No, segregation is unnatural. I don't think Islam teaches that.

What is wrong is Western Feminism.

 

[El Sidd]

Should I now play the victim??

Whose stopping you? You make a thread about your experience and i can bet people will laugh at you even here for not being able to be a man. lol

 

[war&peace]

This is why Islam segregates men and women. The law that Allah has set is for our benefit.

Men and women can never be friends you know why they cant as the answers are obvious.

That's true in most cases..the relationship does not stay platonic for long.. even if it is not romantic, it gets flirtatious and intimate. It happened multiple times. I had classmates and group-mates and it will all start with a normal nice activity together...

 

[jamahir]

Whose stopping you? You make a thread about your experience and i can bet people will laugh at you even here for not being able to be a man. lol

Are you sure you know about the #MeToo thing trending at present ??

 

[El Sidd]

Are you sure you know about the #MeToo thing trending at present ??

Its some sort of bucket list right?

 

[jamahir]

Its some sort of bucket list right?

For "wronged" females, it is one.

 

[El Sidd]

For "wronged" females, it is one.

Then Stop pissing women off

 

[Mentee]

#heman in most cases gives ride to a #woman on his shoulders so that the #woman don't have to wash the mud stains latter on.

Saves the Homo Sapiens some extra buckets - - - - - -.

 

[war&peace]

Exactly !! Such hypocrisy !!

You could have had perfectly consensual sex.

Then something goes wrong with the woman. You don't call her back. She does not get what she wanted. Or you simply never see each other again.

15 years later when you are in a very different place in life and probably have a lot more to lose, this female comes back and wants to rekindle things.

Or wants something that you will not or cannot give.

She goes on air and claims that #shetoo.

Your life is screwed. Regardless of whether you did anything or not. Whether it comes to court or not. Gets proven in court or not.

Your family. Your neighbors. The people at work. They will all look at you different.

Takes all the fun out of sex when you give this sort of power into one side's hands ....

@SoulSpokesman ???

Cheers, Doc

In Sweden a lot of rape is reported and that even puts at the top in the world but what people don't know is that most of those rape claims are dismissed by police after preliminary investigation and the reason are kind of similar as you mentioned. Girls go the man's place or bring him to their place, have fun with him but if it turns out to be against their liking or taste or they simply regret it later, they file a rape report because they can't cope with the guilt that they made out with that person (peer pressure) or because the guy did not respond to them the next day.

 

[jamahir]

Then Stop pissing women off

There goes another of your infamous sarcastic one-liners.

In Sweden a lot of rape is reported and that even puts at the top in the world but what people don't know is that most of those rape claims are dismissed by police after preliminary investigation and the reason are kind of similar as you mentioned. Girls go the man's place or bring him to their place, have fun with him but if it turns out to be against their liking or taste or they simply regret it later, they file a rape report because they can't cope with the guilt that they made out with that person (peer pressure) or because the guy did not respond to them the next day.

And that is how lot of mullahs quote Sweden as having high rape numbers, but they don't analyze how that came to be.

 

[padamchen]

In Sweden a lot of rape is reported and that even puts at the top in the world but what people don't know is that most of those rape claims are dismissed by police after preliminary investigation and the reason are kind of similar as you mentioned. Girls go the man's place or bring him to their place, have fun with him but if it turns out to be against their liking or taste or they simply regret it later, they file a rape report because they can't cope with the guilt that they made out with that person (peer pressure) or because the guy did not respond to them the next day.

The same shit happens in India as well.

Got to be extremely careful at the workplace.

We have some ball busting Vishakha Guidelines.

Cheers, Doc

 

[RealNapster]

Alright, there has been much huffing and puffing lately about women being "sexually harassed" by men. A little of this is physical harassment but most of it seems to be non-physical one.

Now I don't know how I look but some women have flirted with me, generally wanting to entice me. Should I call this harassment ?? Of course not.

Should there be something called #HeToo ?? Or should I feel good about women flirting with me ??

Should there be something called Meninism just like how there is Feminism ??

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There should be only one thing. And thats called equality. Equal amount of responsibilities, equal amount of benefits. No more 3 months paid leave on pregnancy. No more previleges. Make them work till 1 am if men in that office are occasionally that late working.

 

[SoulSpokesman]

@padamchen

Doc,

We have some ball busting Vishakha Guidelines.

So do we. Thats why I tell my male team members to play extra safe and not date colleagues.

Regards

 

[RealNapster]

You could read the situation perfectly and still end up there.

Or publicly offended and embarrassed at the very least.

Cheers, Doc

Or maybe that woman in 2059 will bring a #Metoo v.2.0 , and claim she was harassed by @jamahir in that book shop . Jail him for this. And the irony, he will get jailed for that.