Bro its a valid point. We thank China for sending relief material during distress. But all other points are just purely business.
You really want India to be thankful then China should play a role in pushing Pakistan for peaceful resolution of Kashmir and stop its proxy war in Kashmir.
India is OK with status quo. i.e. we dont want Pak Occupied Kashmir they can keep it.
India and China should resolve boundary issue with dialog taking each others security concerns in to perspective.
And I understand that a lot of issues where mainly caused due to India's decision to providing asylum to Dalai lama. That damaged needs to be fixed and China should stop cornering India on international forums because one day or the other we will rise to be among the top three and why would you want to create an enemy right at your borders when you can make an ally.