Virginity & Pre-Marital Relations

[Rajaraja Chola]

I would anyday prefer a not-virgin girl with gr8 compatibility with me than a virgin girl with little compatibility.

Frankly, virginity doesn't matter.

To me, sex is nothing more than an instrument of fun.

You watch TV for fun.

You listen to music for fun.

You have sex for fun.

Only requirement: While she's in relationship with me, she should be 100% faithful. What she did in her life is something that is immaterial and something that cannot be changed and cannot be wished away either.

Well u cant say marriage is fun...
Its life, with whom u gonna live till last!!!
And as said before, if she had lost her virginity due to cheats, its acceptable, but not to those who lost it for sex and fun!!
Cos there is no guarentee that she would be 100% faithfull to u nor to anyone !!!

 

[Ajaxpaul]

Virgin or not doesnt matter...What matters is trust.

for both boys and girls.

 

[ChineseTiger1986]

Indeed, most men prefer that his wife to be a virgin before the marriage, but the world is not idealistic.

Don't miss the girl if she is a good one.

 

[p(-)0ENiX]

I would never marry a woman if she wasn't a good Muslim, so I have to say yeah a woman's purity is important to me.

 

[acetophenol]

i won't care whether she is a a virgin or not.

 

[PAKBARBIE]

its actually not possible to tell if sum1 is a virgin or not (hymen cud break due to so many reasons including tampon use, sports, etc.) so the girl cud just not tell u... u wud never know.

 

[ChineseTiger1986]

Well u cant say marriage is fun...
Its life, with whom u gonna live till last!!!
And as said before, if she had lost her virginity due to cheats, its acceptable, but not to those who lost it for sex and fun!!
Cos there is no guarentee that she would be 100% faithfull to u nor to anyone !!!

Sure, there are a higher rate of unfaithful non-virgin brides compared to the virgin brides, but still you can't categorize every single individuals.

 

[ashokdeiva]

This is a complex question to answer.
The answer depends on what kind of personality the person in question is?
There are men/women who have multiple sex partners for fun and for people like them marriage life is like a prison and as they do not fit in, if they ever were married, the marriage ends either he/she can do not get satisfied with one person their whole life.

For me, verginity is not a important trait for a successful marriage, all that is required for a marriage to be successful is the commitment of the people who enter in a wed lock to each other and the friendly openness that gives them the trust for each other and the longing for each other both in mind and body.

 

[darkinsky]

I would anyday prefer a not-virgin girl with gr8 compatibility with me than a virgin girl with little compatibility.

Frankly, virginity doesn't matter.

To me, sex is nothing more than an instrument of fun.

You watch TV for fun.

You listen to music for fun.

You have sex for fun.

Only requirement: While she's in relationship with me, she should be 100% faithful. What she did in her life is something that is immaterial and something that cannot be changed and cannot be wished away either.

are you a lesbian??

 

[Karachiite]

As long as she is good looking, loving and faithful then I could care less if her cherry is popped or not.

 

[Armstrong]

Just as I don't like men who go around screwing anything with a pair of ooolaalaaas on them...I don't like sluts ! But I think its not as easy as the questionnaire intended it to be...so many things come together and compel you to decide whether you'd like to spend the rest of your life with someone and for me 'a kind, caring heart' is worth a lot more than any amount of meat between her legs!
So if like me she doesn't view 'sex' as just some beastial act but rather as an extension of love and that she does believe in 'love' instead of a calculated relationship with a bloody balance sheet of its own...then her virginity or lack thereof isn't an issue !

 

[acetophenol]

As long as she is good looking, loving and faithful then I could care less if her cherry is popped or not.

yeah!!!!!!!

 

[AUz]

Well here's the catch ..

Will you marry a girl that has boyfriend(s) before? She liked them and kissed them? BUT she never had sex with them? Or what about a girl who was innocent and had sex with a guy without knowing the consequences of it? It all comes down to your judgement...Some girls are 'machines' .. They'll have one guy , then another and then another and so on... Offcourse , no one would want to get married with such girls duhh....but if a girl is a nice person. It really shouldn't matter if she was involved in previous relationship.... BUT BUT BUT ..... most of you guys won't even know a sh!t about the past relationship(s) of your fiances and wives So if she is faithful to you , don't think about her past and treat her nicely !

 

[Ignited Mind]

are you a lesbian??

Are you educated?

 

[Jade]

The talk about virginity in 21st century is odd. I would not miss a girl I love -virgin or no virgin doesn't matter