It's great to hear from a Chinese about what (s)he thinks. I myself prefer not to talk too much about politics, yet I did here (I felt the urge). Nowadays, I don't think any rational government would go for military action except for some in Africa, some in Middle East, North Korea and...the US.
About the Laoshan territories, I don't know what to say, dispute would go on years and years... We all can understand one's attachment to the land where one was born. But sometimes, we have to be logical, the U-shape territory claim is kind of... weird, in my respect.
Also, I don't think Vietnam provokes China. Instead, many Vietnamese think that the government is too soft and doesn't have a solution. So, the government responds by making this public accusation (probably because of the election).
I know most Chinese and Vietnamese wish for a peaceful resolution, there are but also too many hotheaded on both sides. Ah... and Vietnamese can't win in term of military "race" (not even a race, Vietnam has nothing)
For Vietnamese news, you can check here: vnexpress.net/gl/the-gioi/tu-lieu/2011/06/toan-canh-vu-trung-quoc-xam-pham-viet-nam/
You can use google translation, not too bad in my opinion, I've seen worse translation(s). It is Vietnamese-based, so it's one-sided. This is also very sensitive in Vietnam... Someone talked about hardcore nationalism in Vietnam, it may be right, but I believe it's pretty much that way everywhere.
Anyway, I wish this could be resolved in the most acceptable (for all sides), efficient and logical way.
PS: I can't post hyperlinks (my # of posts is under 5)