I never thought of women how this idot does . Arraigned marriages are hard you aee your friends get them and you think it be ok . Punjabi men are not going to talk of the difficulty of them to their friends you just dont. I thought do it or the old man will kick me out and stop family talking to me . I just in my head blamed my wife for it and just kind of ignored her and went out when I did andike I was not being married. I'm glad I came good and now we happy . I'm glad my wife stuck it out my eldest daughter is in high school now years fly by before I was addressed as putt now hearing myself be called uncle feels weird .He married a muslim and boasting like he has conquered everything. Yours and his is different thing I think in no certain way you have degraded your wife in such heinous way even if you cheated on her or did bad things .