Off course Pakistan was and is being taken for granted, Previous sold out governments made decisions based on what they personally got out of the deal and couldn't care less for the country, Its time Pakistan revisited all its relationships around the world.
Western Nations refused to give you any weapon that will tilt the balance of power in Pakistan favor, but they got whatever they wanted.
Western Nations didn't give Pakistan any preferential trade agreement, but they got what ever they wanted.
GCC nations didn't give Pakistan any preferential treatment in any sector defense or economics, but they got whatever they wanted.
The Chinese gave Pakistan free trade agreement, the Chinese are investing billions in Pakistan's economy, not to mention Pakistan can buy pretty much whatever type of weapons they want with TOT from Chinese. 1962 Chinese told you to take Kashmir Which Pakistan refused because of the Americans.