In the OP video, Amir Mateen acknowledges that in the 80s Pakistan was sold F16 because, then, the Soviet MiGs would often come near Pak border during the Soviet-Afghan war. But Mateen says that there are indeed conditions like F16 cannot be used in an offensive role against India. From the Pak perspective, IF Pak used any F16 then it was in defense.
You cannot blame India for trying to use whatever leverage it can get trying to less Pakistan's arsenals. It's quite UNMANLY for a military to do so with so much firepower, international clout, and budget but that's another topic.